27 señales reveladoras de que la relación se ha acabado para él
¿Tiene su el hombre se aleja and cold all of a sudden? Has he distanced himself to the point you can no longer get through him, and you can’t help but wonder if he’s thinking about leaving you?
Tengo algo que disipará o confirmará todas tus dudas: una lista de señales de advertencia la relación ha terminado para él.
By the time you finish reading this article, you’ll know if tu hombre es realmente sobre ti. I’ve also added a few tips that will help you endure it all and accelerate your healing process.
27 señales de advertencia de que la relación se ha acabado para él
Una lista de las señales de alarma más evidentes de una relación fallida:
1. He’s distancing himself
Si su el hombre empieza a alejarse and shutting himself off emotionally, it’s a huge sign that he’s thinking about ending your relationship.
Maybe he has some personal issues, or his emotions are all mixed up, and he doesn’t know how to speak to you about it. On the other hand, it may also be because his feelings for you have changed, and he doesn’t have the guts to admit it.
Mi consejos sobre relaciones a usted es que usted debe tratar de enfrentarse a él al respecto. Tell him that you’ve noticed he’s become distant, and you want to know what the real reason for his behavior is.
2. Y, alejándote
On the flip side, if you’ve already tried to do that and sólo te apartó and distanced himself even more, it’s clear that something is off.
Now, it’s up to you to figure out what that ‘something’ is. Is he really struggling with some other issue, or has he indeed stopped loving you?
3. La falta de confianza es evidente (por ambas partes)
The problem is that he’s not the only one in your relationship who has problemas de confianza – you’ve also started doubting his feelings. Su comportamiento sospechoso te ha llevado al punto de que ya no confías en su amor.
The truth is: you can’t have saludable, relación amorosa if he doesn’t trust you or viceversa. La falta de confianza es un gran obstáculo en las relaciones.
If you don’t start working on reconstruir la confianza entre ustedes, tarde o temprano, hará que uno o ambos se alejen.
4. Deja de acercarse con regularidad
Is poor not even a good enough word to describe your communication? And even if you’ve tried hard to improve it, you can’t because the other side doesn’t show any interest in doing so?
I’m sorry I have to break it to you like this, but it’s a clear sign su pareja doesn’t care for you as much as you think he does (actually, he probably doesn’t care for you at all).
Although, it may also be a sign that he just isn’t ready for a relación comprometida. Maybe you’ve talked about taking your relationship to the next level, and it freaked him out. These are just assumptions, and your man is the only one who knows the real reason.
5. Sigues peleando y él sigue culpándote de todo
Do you constantly fight over unimportant, little things, and you can’t find a way to put a stop to them? No matter what you do, does he always blame you for everything?
It’s obvious that he’s playing el malvado juego de echar las culpas a otros. Quiere romper contigo, and he’s trying to manipulate you into taking the blame for the breakup.
Be smart and don’t fall for those manipulations. You know you haven’t done anything wrong, and he’s the one who needs to gather the courage to break up with you directly without manipulating you.
6. No matter what you do, it’s impossible to please him
If your man has become impossible to talk to, deal with, live with… it’s more than obvious that something is bothering him.
You can try to please him and cheer him up, but it most definitely won’t work – you’ll only drive yourself crazy. Lo que tienes que hacer es averiguar la causa de su comportamiento.
¿Has hecho algo que le haya enfadado? ¿Tiene problemas personales, familiares o laborales?
If you can’t figure out any possible cause for his mal humor intolerable, it’s probably because there isn’t any. He’s simply over you and can’t stand being around you.
7. He’s started spending a lot of time with his buddies…
If he’s started spending more time with his pals and going out, it’s a bad sign that his priorities have changed.
Sure, it’s completely normal to spend time with other people outside your relationship, but your partner must always come first. Nunca debes descuidarlos por tus amigos o seres queridos.
8. …While he limits spending time with you
Antes, pasar el tiempo with you was his priority, but, all of a sudden, that’s changed, and now, you rarely even see him. I know that feeling of being crossed off your partner’s priority list well, and, trust me, I know how awful and heartbreaking it is.
It feels like you’re persiguiéndole todo el tiempo, and I know… You’re tired of that chase.
Entonces, todo lo que tienes que hacer es dejar de perseguir. He’s obviously running away from you and doesn’t want to be caught.
9. He’s become an expert in the art of making excuses
¿Cómo sabes cuándo una relación ha terminado para él? Respuesta sencilla: empieza a evitarte y se convierte en un experto de alto nivel en poner excusas sin sentido.
He isn’t ready to call it quits just yet, and he’s keeping you as a backup. Now, it’s up to you to choose whether you’ll let him manipulate you or run him off, together with his excuses.
10. Deja de ser tu apoyo número uno
Era la persona con la que podías hablar de todo. Era la persona a la que acudías siempre que tenías un problema o querías compartir una buena noticia. Era tu mayor apoyo y tu fan número uno.
He WAS… That’s the point. Now, he’s just a man who once loved you, a man who doesn’t have the guts to spill the beans and admit that he’s sobre ti.
11. You constantly walk on eggshells when he’s around
When you’re in a relación sana¿te sientes cómodo cerca de tu pareja. Sientes que puedes hablar y compartir todo con ellos porque sabes que nunca te juzgarán ni te harán sentir mal por ello.
If you feel like you’re walking on cáscaras de huevo, if you feel like you need to carefully choose your words with your partner, it’s a huge bandera roja tu relación es tóxica.
Actually, it’s not important whether he loves you or not anymore. The only important thing for you is to realize the consequences that una relación tóxica puede dejar en usted y salir de ella tan pronto como sea posible.
12. La desconexión emocional
¿La razón por la que dudas de sus sentimientos hacia ti es una mala comunicación? You’ve stopped sharing your thoughts and feelings, which has led to an emocional desconexión, lo que lleva a que os distanciéis.
This doesn’t mean he’s stopped loving you, but it’s definitely a sign that his feelings are changing. If you don’t find a way to connect with him soon, you’ll lose him forever.
13. You can’t even remember the last time he expressed his love for you
Okay, it’s clear by now that he has stopped showing his love for you through his actions. Sin embargo, ¿recuerda cuándo última vez simplemente te dijo te quería ¿Era?
You can’t, I know because it was a long, looooong time ago. Well, you can actually see it as something positive: at least he doesn’t want to lie to you.
14. He turns your dates into ‘Netflix and chill’
Lo único que realmente funciona en tu relación es tu vida sexual. However, you can’t feel good about it because it makes you feel like you’re in una relación casual.
Sex shouldn’t only make you feel physically good. It should also strengthen your intimate and emotional bond.
If your man doesn’t want to stay the night, if he always gives you some lame excuse just to leave immediately after you’ve done the deed, it’s a huge red flag he doesn’t love you.
15. El romanticismo hace tiempo que desapareció
He was so romantic before… He always tried to surprise you with pequeños gestos románticosy a través de ellas pequeñas cosas...sabías con certeza que te amaba.
¿Todo eso ya es pasado y sólo recibes silencio y falta de respeto por su parte? Creo que aquí las cosas están bastante claras. ¿Realmente necesita más banderas rojas, ¿o es este rojo suficiente para que finalmente lo dejes?
16. La chispa también se ha desvanecido
Cuando el romance muere en un relación románticala chispa también muere con él.
El hecho es que puedes amarte profundamente, pero si no hay chispa, if you don’t work on reigniting it, you’ll eventually get sick of one another.
17. La falta de celos
Una buena dosis de celos siempre viene bien. relación romántica. Demuestra que los miembros de la pareja se quieren y temen perderse el uno al otro.
Si tu hombre deja de mostrar celos incluso cuando realmente tiene una razón para ello, tienes todo el derecho a sospechar que ya no te quiere como antes.
18. He’s no longer excited to make plans with you
¿Han hecho planes de futuro juntos? ¿Su pareja estaba dispuesta a hacer planes y soñar con el futuro con usted? Eso significa que realmente estaba apuntando a a relación comprometida contigo.
However, if that has changed, if he starts avoiding those talks, it’s a señal de advertencia that those ‘aims’ and his plans have changed. Puede que sus planes sigan siendo los mismos, pero uno de los protagonistas ha cambiado.
19. You’ve found traces of infidelity
Si este es el caso, ¿realmente necesitas más señales de que la relación ha terminado para él? Si pudiera engañarte, it’s more than obvious that he doesn’t love you.
20. Sus seres queridos también se dan cuenta de que algo no va bien
Are you not the only one who’s noticed that your partner is acting strange? Have your friends and family also noticed?
Well, it’s possible that you’re wrong, but it’s less likely that all of you are wrong and that nothing is truly happening with your relationship.
21. He’s become abusive
If your man has become aggressive or even abusive, it’s a good sign he doesn’t love you anymore.
Bueno, probablemente nunca te quiso en el primer puesto porque sólo un cobarde sería capaz de herir y maltratar a una mujer de la que una vez estuvo enamorado.
Needless to say… Don’t ever allow any man to abuse you in any way, no matter how much you love him, because that is the worst and most unfair thing you can do to yourself.
22. Afecta profundamente a tu salud mental
¿Es su pareja the reason you’ve been depressed and anxious? Bueno, si su pareja afecta a su salud emocional y mental, it’s one of the telltale signs the relationship is over for him.
It’s simple actually: if he cared for you, he wouldn’t allow his actions to hurt you in this way. Nunca haría nada para herirte porque sentiría tu dolor como propio.
23. Rechaza todos tus intentos de salvar la relación
Lo intentas y lo intentas y intenta salvar tu relación but constantly fail. And the only reason for those failures is that he doesn’t want it to happen.
He doesn’t want to give your relationship another chance because he wants you to take separate paths.
24. Se vuelve loco cuando mencionas la terapia de pareja
Si se niega a pedir ayuda a un coach relacional, it’s a clear sign that he isn’t willing to work on fixing your relationship.
Reconstruir un relación romántica es una calle de doble sentido. It most definitely can’t be done if only one side is ready to put effort into making things work again.
25. You simply haven’t felt loved for a long period of time
Constant fights, humiliation, him pulling away and hurting you… Even though you still don’t want to admit it to yourself, you simply feel that his heart has changed.
If you aren’t feeling LOVED¿Qué más se necesita para que finalmente te des cuenta de que necesitas déjalo ir?
26. El amor también se ha debilitado de tu lado
Puede que intentes engañarte, pero en el fondo sabes que es verdad. Stop blaming yourself and suppressing your feelings because it’s normal that you can’t love someone who keeps hurting you.
I know that you’ve also started thinking about ending your relación romántica, y tiene todo el derecho a hacerlo.
Don’t stay where you’re not welcome, and don’t ever allow someone to treat you like you aren’t worthy of being loved.
27. Se retira
That’s it, the final and definitely most obvious sign the relationship is over for him: Finalmente admite que sus sentimientos han cambiado y rompe contigo.
I agree that it’s something he should have done as soon as he stopped loving you. Sin embargo, debes sentirte agradecido a Dios porque tu agonía por fin ha terminado, y ahora sabes a qué atenerte exactamente.
Qué hacer si tus dudas se hacen realidad
If you’ve recognized most of these warning signs of a failing relationship, then you must think about your next steps. There are two possible scenarios, and I’m about to walk you through them.
• Give him time and space
If you’re en un relación duraderaEsto puede ser sólo una fase. Tal vez se quedó atascado en una rutina, y simplemente lo agotó.
If that’s the case, he’s probably confused and doesn’t know what to do next. Mi consejos sobre relaciones para ti es déjalo en paz. Deja de perseguirle y déjale estar a solas con sus propios pensamientos y emociones.
• Go no contact for a while
Más expertos en relaciones estaría de acuerdo en que lo mejor que deberías hacer es ir ningún contacto durante un tiempo. Así ambos tendréis tiempo de ordenar vuestros pensamientos y sentimientos para tomar la mejor decisión posible sobre el futuro de vuestra relación.
If he comes back, if he reaches out first, it’s a buena señal que todavía te quiere. On the other hand, if you don’t get any response after that time, it means that he’s truly done with you.
• Then, break the silence and try to win him over again
Si lo echas de menos, and he still doesn’t reach out to you after a while, you’re allowed to break the no contact rule and reach out first.
El objetivo de un relación sana es que las parejas necesitan tener una comunicación abierta y sana. Así que invítale a salir y empieza a hablar.
Sé directo y pon todas las cartas sobre la mesa. Háblale de tus sentimientos y de todo lo que te preocupa. Además, escucha atentamente lo que tiene que decirte e intenta comprenderle.
• Suggest couples therapy
If you still love each other, there is no problem you can’t overcome together. As long as there is love, there’s also hope to save your relationship.
Si ambos queréis luchar por vuestra relación, debéis buscar ayuda profesional. Dejad que un asesor sentimental os guíe en la resolución de vuestros problemas y os ayude a reconstruir vuestra relación.
IF that doesn’t work…
If your man doesn’t come back, you simply need to accept the truth that he’s sobre ti y céntrate en tu curación y avanzando.
• Come to terms with the truth
Tu pareja ya no te quiere en su vida. As hard as it is to accept it, it’s a fact, and the sooner you learn to come to terms with it, the sooner you’ll seguir adelante.
I know it’s not a great consolation, but you aren’t the first person to go through this. Many of us have been in your situation and managed to recover from it, and you will too.
• Be proud of yourself for trying
Luchasteis y os esforzasteis por salvar vuestra relación, y eso es algo de lo que realmente deberíais sentiros orgullosos. If you didn’t try, you would be left with regrets forever.
Siempre habría ese ¿Y si, and you would blame yourself for not even trying to save your relationship. This way, you’ll know it wasn’t you, and trust me: it’ll help you move on faster.
• Know when to let go
Cuando se acabe toda esperanza, oblígate a aceptar tu realidad y a seguir adelante. There is no point dwelling on what could have been when it’s clear that all of it was just a dream.
This is your reality, a not-so-great one, I agree, but it’s yours, and you need to accept it and live with it.
• Now, you need to give yourself time… to heal
You gave him time to think about you and your relationship, and now it’s time to give yourself time. Don’t hurry with moving on.
Te duele el corazón y sólo tienes que concentrarte en curándolo. If you move on before you heal, you’ll only be left with an awful burden that will prevent you from forming a healthy relationship with another man.
• Break free from grudges
Don’t hold grudges. Don’t feel regret. God will send many people on your path, and He’ll use some of them to teach you valuable lessons.
And that’s how you should look at your relationship: as a huge lesson. Now, you’re equipped with more caution for the next person who comes into your life, and you won’t allow someone else to hurt you like this ever again.
¿Cómo saber si un hombre ha terminado con su relación?
Por supuesto, todas las parejas pasan por malas rachas, y habrá momentos en los que su hombre se distancie o se aleje. However, once the affection disappears, once he stops treating you as his priority, that’s when you’ll know he’s done with you for good.
Most of the time, you won’t be able to recognize him… You’ll feel that he isn’t the man you fell in love with.
He’ll start doing things behind your back. Actually, he’ll keep doing things that hurt you and won’t even bother to think about how those things make you feel.
Whether he comes clean about his (lack of) feelings or not, deep down, you’ll simply know. You may struggle to accept that he’s over you, but you’ll definitely know before he even admits it to you.
¿Debo esperarle o seguir adelante?
Truth to be told, you’re the only person who can answer this question correctly. Both are okay: you can wait for him IF you truly love him and think it’s all just a phase. Or, you come to terms with the truth, seguir adelantee intenta curar tu corazón roto lo antes posible.
La respuesta a esta pregunta está en tu corazón. However, that doesn’t mean you should neglect yourself completely in the process of making the final decision.
Your emotions are important, but that still doesn’t mean it’s justification enough for you to stay in a relationship or fight for someone who doesn’t love you.
¿Cuándo debes dejar marchar a un chico?
When it’s obvious that his feelings for you have disappeared. Don’t try to deceive yourself that you may change what’s in his heart because, pase lo que pase you do, you can’t make someone love you.
Mientras creas sinceramente que aún te quiere, debes luchar por él. Sin embargo, en el momento en que te des cuenta de que el amor se ha ido, tienes que dejar de intentarlo y renunciar a él.
It’s hard, but you need to know when a suelta. Don’t piérdete trying to keep what obviously wasn’t meant to be.
Palabras finales
Did you recognize most of these signs the relationship is over for him? Does your man’s behavior match most of these behavioral patterns above?
If your answer is yes, then, unfortunately, it’s a bad sign that necesitas dejarlo ir. Salva tu corazón de más dolor y sigue adelante.
In the end, if your man is dumb enough to leave you, you need to show him that you’re smart enough to let him go.
