49 segni di un partner traditore a cui prestare attenzione

The fact is, many people cheat, but it’s also true that, unfortunately, most of them never get caught. And why is that? Because their partner is blinded by love and can’t see the spia signs of their partner’s betrayal.

If you have any doubts at all, or if you’ve found some good signs of your partner’s infidelity, here is something that may help you find out the truth: 49 signs of a cheating partner.

Una relazione sana è una partnership tra due persone che accettano di essere fedeli l'una all'altra nella primo posto. Se uno dei due decide di rompere l'accordo, può avere conseguenze terribili sulla loro relazione.

Now, the time has come… Let’s reveal once and for all whether your partner cheats on you or not.

49 Segni impercettibili di un partner traditore

Questi sono i più comuni I segnali di un coniuge traditore/partner, and if you’re wondering whether your SO is cheating on you, you should pay close attention to each and every single one of them. They’ll reveal the truth about your partner’s fidelity.

1. Hanno un comportamento distante e ritirato

The first thing that’s got you so worried about your relationships is your partner’s distant behavior, giusto? You don’t spend quality time together anymore, and una comunicazione sana e regolare non fa più parte della vostra relazione.

Well, you’re right, it’s awkward, and something is definitely going on. Withdrawing behavior is also a possible sign of a cheating partner because they’re slowly falling out of love but still aren’t sure how and quando rompere con te.

2. Il loro linguaggio del corpo è strano

I always say this, but it’s genuinely true. There is so much you can find out about a person from the way their body reacts around you. A person may lie to you, but il loro linguaggio del corpo will almost always give them up. So, yes, that’s come la maggior parte degli affari viene scoperta.

Cercate di parlare con il vostro partner del suo comportamento negli ultimi tempi e prestate molta attenzione al suo comportamento. linguaggio del corpo quando si parla con loro. If they get all nervous, touch their hair, or are unable to make or maintain eye contact with you, it’s because they know you’ve caught them.

3. Rompere la loro routine

Have you noticed any sudden changes in your partner’s everyday routine? Do they do things they didn’t do before?

Maybe you haven’t made a grande affare perché pensavate che fosse irrilevante, ma in realtà potrebbe essere un segno di infedeltà.

4. Mostrano anche segni di scarsa autostima.

Sapete perché molte persone tradiscono il proprio partner? Perché lottano con la propria autostima e hanno bisogno di un'altra persona che rafforzi il loro ego.

It’s like cheating fulfills their confidence. Maybe you’re somehow the reason they have self-esteem issues, and they’ve found someone else to help them feel better about themselves.

5. Trascorrere del tempo di qualità insieme viene dimenticato da tempo

Prima uscivate insieme, passavate tutto il vostro tempo libero insieme e organizzavate sempre attività super divertenti per i vostri appuntamenti.

Now, has all of that changed, and you can’t even remember the last time you spent some quality time together?

They’re always busy, and even if you make plans, they bail on you last minute. Unfortunately, it’s obvious that your partner is spending their free time with another person.

6. La fuga da voi è diventata la loro cosa preferita

It’s not that they cancel on you sometimes, but they do it all the time, and it seems like they don’t care about how that makes you feel at all… Well, unfortunately, they probably don’t.

They have more important things to do. I know it frustrates you and makes you sad at the same time, and you definitely shouldn’t put up with it for long.

7. They lie to you – ALL THE TIME

Avete iniziato a coglierli spesso in una bugia? It’s probably because everything they say to you is a lie, and they get caught up in a web of their own lies.

They can no longer remember what they’ve told you and what they told the other person. Sooner or later, they’ll understand that they need to pick a side and stop che ti stringe entrambi.

8. You know for sure they’re keeping secrets from you

You’ve also found out about some of their secrets and things they were carefully keeping from you. There’s a fine reason they didn’t want you to find out about those things, and I’m pretty sure they have more secrets.

However, even if they’re masters at cheating, they won’t be able to keep going about their affair behind your back for long. You’ll find out one way or another, and the truth will finally come into the light.

9. Si lasciano prendere dalle loro storie o dalle loro scuse.

I’ve already mentioned this in the part about lying. They’re probably full of excuses every time you want to see them or plan something with them.

But, the truth is, they won’t be able to keep on offering you some lame excuses and sitting on two chairs at the same time.

10. La vostra vita sessuale è diventata noiosa

Did you have a wildly passionate sex life before, but lately, things have changed behind closed doors? Of course, there are many possible reasons for it, but one of them may be your partner’s infidelity.

They’re getting physical pleasure somewhere else and in someone else’s bed, and that’s why your bed doesn’t interest them too much anymore.

Si può e si deve cercare di rendere più piccanti le cose a lettoMa se tutti i vostri tentativi non vanno a buon fine, dovreste considerarlo un importante segnale di allarme.

11. Evitano l'intimità fisica

Intimità fisica definitely isn’t the most important foundation of una relazione sana, but it’s a very important part of it. Without it, the bond between partners would be very weak, and they would never be able to function as a happy, healthy couple.

Dovreste preoccuparvi se il vostro partner ha iniziato a evitare di essere intimo con voi all'improvviso. They have a good reason for it, and that reason is probably the fact they’re being intimate with someone else.

12. They’re also emotionally detached

Come si comportano quando dite loro che li amate o condividete con loro i vostri sentimenti? E cosa rispondono quando chiedete loro se vi amano?

Se evitano di parlarne, avete il diritto di sospettare che i loro sentimenti nei vostri confronti siano cambiati. You should give them time because they may have other issues, but it’s most likely they have stopped loving you.

13. Richiedono troppo spazio

I know this is difficult to understand and process. Before, you spent all of your free time together, and now, they’re asking you to give them space.

Forse hanno davvero bisogno di tempo e spazio per pensare ai loro problemi e alle cose che li preoccupano, ma se vi amano sinceramente, non vi allontanerebbero mai in un modo così brutto.

14. They’ve needed to work a lot of overtime lately

Credo che il fatto che facciano tardi non abbia nulla a che fare con il loro lavoro. Purtroppo, questo è un possibile segno che il vostro partner vi tradisce e trascorre del tempo con il suo amante, offrendovi una scusa di lavoro poco credibile.

Dovreste sorprenderli una sera e andare sul loro posto di lavoro. If you don’t find them there, then it’s completely clear what is going on.

15. You can’t reach them for hours or even days sometimes

Is this normal? Has this ever happened before? If it’s a new thing, you should see it as a huge red flag that they don’t care about you enough.

They’re probably busy with someone else, and that’s why they can’t reply to your calls and texts.

16. Il loro stile di bacio cambia

Come vi sentite quando il vostro partner vi bacia ora? È la stessa cosa che provava all'inizio della vostra relazione o percepisce che c'è qualcosa di diverso?

If they don’t want to kiss you in public and avoid passionate, baci romantici, it’s a segno negativo they’re seeing (and kissing) someone else.

17. Ci sono bandiere rosse su tutto il loro social media

Your significant other’s social media can also reveal a lot about how they think and feel about you. For example, if you had pics together and they’ve deleted them all of a sudden, it’s obvious they’re trying to hide you from someone.

Also, if they’ve asked you to stop sharing pics of you two together, it’s a possibile segno della loro infedeltà. Prestate attenzione ai post, alle canzoni, alle citazioni che condividono e alle foto che taggano.

18. You’ve found out they have profiles on some dating apps

If this really happened, if you’ve run onto your partner’s profile on a dating app, then it’s clear they’re at least thinking about cheating on you.

Potete anche creare una trappola per loro e cercare di catturarli in questo modo. Just make a fake profile and reach out to them. If they reply, chat with them and see whether they’re really able to cheat on you.

19. You’ve also found traces of infidelity on their cellphone

I’m usually against going through your partner’s phone, but if you’ve noticed too many of these possible signs of their infidelity, then you have the green light to check their cellphone.

If they’re really cheating on you, you’ll probably find some evidence on their phone.

Controllare le chiamate, i messaggi, le foto e le social media if you have access to them. IF and when you find proof they’re being unfaithful, you should immediately confront them about it.

Correlato: Tradimento telefonico: 8 segnali digitali dell'infedeltà del partner

20. Oppure, cancellano assolutamente tutto dal loro telefono

Also, if you find their phone completely empty, and by that I mean if they’ve deleted their history, their texts, and everything else, it could also be a good sign they’re having an affair.

It means they’re being very careful, though. Maybe they’ve caught you snooping on their phone once already, and they don’t want to risk getting caught.

21. Si innervosiscono quando si inizia a interrogarli sulla loro posizione.

It’s normal that you want to know about your partner’s whereabouts when you’re in una relazione seria. Of course, it shouldn’t mean that you need to know every step they take. However, it would be nice if you’re in touch regularly.

If you doubt your partner’s fidelity, you should pay attention to how and with whom they spend their time. If there are some suspicious movements or they go out a lot, and you don’t know where, you should simply ask them.

You probably won’t get an honest answer from their side, but it’s irrelevant because their reaction will say it all. If they get all nervous and anxious, they’re hiding something from you, and they’re probably afraid you’ve caught them in a lie.

22. Iniziano a uscire regolarmente

Have your partner’s frequent nights out really started to bother you? You should definitely talk about it with them, but also be careful about it because it’s a good sign they’re being unfaithful to you.

You can ask to go out with them one night and see what their response is. If they allow you to go with them, you probably don’t have anything to worry about.

However, if they refuse immediately and get nervous, then it’s a potential red flag that something bad is going on.

23. Inoltre, iniziano a comprare e indossare spesso vestiti nuovi.

Il vostro fidanzato/la vostra fidanzata si preoccupa improvvisamente di più del proprio aspetto fisico? Compra nuovi vestiti, fa trattamenti benessere o termali, prova nuove acconciature e così via?

Unfortunately, it’s not a proven fact, but almost every time a partner starts caring about their looks more than they care about you, they’re probably cheating on you. Vogliono essere belle per quell'altra persona, il loro amante.

24. Mostrano anche segni di rammarico

Avete notato che il vostro SO mostra sottili segni di rimpianto? You haven’t caught them doing anything, so why are they behaving that way?

Ci sono due possibili spiegazioni.

Either they’ve cheated on you and regretted it instantly because they love you and know it could destroy your relationship, or they just feel sorry for you and for betraying you in that way after everything you’ve been through together.

25. Hanno molti nuovi hobby

Isn’t it weird? How come someone can find so many new interests or hobbies all of a sudden? And how do they have so much free time to do all of it?

Forse il motivo per cui hanno così tanti nuovi hobby è che hanno incontrato qualcuno di nuovo e stanno cercando di mostrare interesse per i loro interessi. Of course, your partner may also be trying to find a hobby that suits them best, but that’s, unfortunately, less likely than the first option.

26. Ci sono spese inspiegabili sugli estratti conto della carta di credito.

Unexplained expenses on their credit card statements may explain it all. Either they’re cheating on you, or they’ve become passionate gambling addicts all of a sudden. ?

Anyways, you should take a better look at those statements, and maybe you’ll be able to figure out a few things there. Inoltre, chiedete al vostro partner di spiegarvi perché una comunicazione aperta è fondamentale per una relazione sana.

27. They don’t want to have a shared bank account anymore

If you are in a long-term relationship, it’s normal to agree to have a shared bank account. And if your partner has decided they don’t want to share their finances with you all of a sudden and for no reason, it’s clear they’re planning to rottura con voi.

Dovreste accettare la loro decisione, ma dovreste anche scoprire il vero motivo per cui vogliono scollegare i vostri conti bancari.

28. Cominciano a uscire di nascosto come adolescenti

If you’re married or live together, you’ve probably also noticed they’re sneaking out of the house late at night. I don’t need to say that it’s obvious they’re hiding something from you.

If they weren’t hiding something, they wouldn’t be sneaking behind your back. No matter how much you love them, you need to admit it’s very suspicious behavior.

29. Trascorrono troppo tempo con un amico di sesso opposto.

Avete notato che il vostro partner è diventato troppo intimo con un collega o un amico del sesso opposto? Passano troppo tempo insieme e si mandano continuamente messaggi?

It’s not definite, but it’s a very buon segno il vostro SO vi tradisce con quella persona.

Maybe they haven’t done anything yet, but I think it’s clear they like each other and that sooner or later they’ll be together. It’s still tradimento emotivo, and in my opinion, it’s the worst tipo di imbroglio.

30. Vogliono andare in vacanza con i loro amici, non con voi.

Did you always spend your vacations and holidays together? Has that also changed? I’m assuming it is because it’s actually a huge sign you’re dealing with a cheater.

They say they want to spend these vacays with their friends, but it’s probably just another one of their lies. They’ll most likely be spending those vacations with their lover while using their friends as just a front.

31. Da mattinieri, si trasformano in nottambuli.

Questo è un segno molto interessante di un partner che tradisce e probabilmente uno dei più evidenti. If you have been dating an early bird who has transformed into a night owl all of a sudden, you’re probably dating a imbroglione.

C'è un motivo che li tiene svegli la notte. E purtroppo, quel motivo è probabilmente un altro essere umano.

32. Fanno un dramma di ogni cosa

And why do you think that is so? Of course, it’s only because they want to initiate fights on purpose.

Vogliono farvi impazzire facendo un grande affare da tutto. With time, it’ll make your relationship toxic, and you won’t have any other choice but to break up with them.

33. They’re either overly jealous or not jealous at all

Tutti gli esperti di relazioni vi diranno che una normale dose di gelosia può effettivamente giovare alla vostra relazione. It’s a sign a person cares for their partner and is afraid of losing them.

However, if your SO has become overly jealous lately, or if they don’t show jealousy at all, it’s a sign something is off between you.

They’re aware of what they’ve done and know you would leave them if you find out, and that fear of losing you makes them jealous of everyone around you.

On the flip side, the reason they don’t show they’re jealous at all may be because they don’t care about you anymore and have another person in their life.

34. Gli insulti sono diventati improvvisamente una cosa normale

Has your partner ever insulted you or called you names before? No? But they’re doing it now, right?

Sfortunatamente, l'abuso verbale è anche uno dei 49 segni di un'incapacità di gestire la situazione. partner traditore. Their feelings have probably shifted onto another person, and that’s why they don’t care about how their behavior will affect you anymore.

Also, it may be their way of trying to make you break up with them. And whether they do it because they’re cheating on you or not, you shouldn’t put up with their toxic behavior.

Don’t ever allow anyone to abuse you in any way, regardless of the feelings you have for that person.

35. Non sono mai stati così affettuosi e attenti.

Naturalmente, non c'è nulla di male nel fatto che un partner sia affettuoso nei confronti dell'altro.

Tuttavia, se notate la maggior parte di questi segni e se il vostro partner è diventato improvvisamente più attento, dovreste considerarlo come una red flag that they’re avere rimpianti per qualcosa.

Purtroppo, anche un improvviso comportamento affettuoso può essere il segno di una marito traditore/Moglie.

36. Qualcun altro vi ha avvertito della sua infedeltà

Has another person ever tried to warn you about your significant other’s infidelity? Maybe you didn’t believe them back then because you didn’t notice the signs of your partner’s betrayal, but now you’ve actually started to think about what that person told you.

Sarebbe una buona idea parlarne di nuovo con quella persona. Try to find out what they know, and maybe they’ll lead you to the evidence of your partner’s infidelity.

37. Quando li accusate di infedeltà, rimangono in silenzio.

Avete mai affrontato i vostri dubbi con loro? Qual è stata la loro reazione quando avete detto loro che pensavate che fossero infedeli?

If they didn’t say a thing, if they didn’t even try to defend themself or deny your accusations, it’s probably because they didn’t have the guts to admit the truth but also didn’t want to lie to you.

In altre parole, il loro silenzio significa solo una cosa: il vostro partner vi sta tradendo.

38. Oppure, vi accusano della stessa cosa

D'altra parte, se il vostro partner ha cercato di scaricare la colpa su di voi and accuse you of being unfaithful, it may also be a sign they’re indeed cheating on you.

Questo scaricabarile è semplicemente il loro modo di difendersi. It’s also a form of manipulation – they want to make you feel bad and make you think that you’re the one to blame for all the problems and issues in your relationship.

39. Tutto ciò che fai o dici è sbagliato

Have you gotten to the point where you don’t know how to behave anymore because it seems like everything you say or do bothers your partner?

I’m sorry to break it out to you, but it’s a segno negativo c'è qualcosa di strano nella vostra relazione. I agree that it doesn’t have to mean they’re cheating on you, but they definitely don’t care about you the way they did before.

40. Criticano in continuazione voi e la vostra relazione

Sono mai stati eccessivamente critici come in questo momento? All'inizio della vostra relazione tendevano a giudicare ogni passo che facevate?

I’m sure they didn’t, and if they have started doing it now, it’s obvious something has changed when it comes to their feelings about you.

Probabilmente vogliono sbarazzarsi di voi e della vostra relazione e andare avanti con la loro vita, e vogliono farvi finire criticandovi continuamente.

41. They don’t respect or ask for your opinion anymore

It’s probably because they have another person whose opinion they care about more. They know you won’t be part of their life anymore pretty soon, and that’s why they don’t care about your opinion.

They’ll probably make some decisions that might shock you, but you shouldn’t allow them to disturb your peace of mind.

42. Rifiutano di recarsi con voi da un terapista familiare

You’re aware that your relationship is going in the wrong direction, and you want to move it back in the right direction. You suggest consulenza di coppiama il vostro partner rifiuta immediatamente.

Unfortunately, many people don’t believe that therapy can help them or their relationships. However, you need to be persistent, and if your partner keeps refusing, it’s a sign of how much (little) they care for you and your relationship.

43. You feel like you don’t recognize them at all anymore

If you’ve been dating for a long time, you probably thought you knew your partner. However, judging by their behavior lately, you get the feeling that you don’t know them at all.

When a partner hides something from their other half, it’s normal for their behavior to change. You just can’t hide something from a person you’ve spent so much time with for so long. It’s simply impossible.

44. It’s obvious they don’t care for you like they used to

You’re aware that your relationship has changed a lot lately. In the beginning, they tried really hard to prove they cared for you, but now, all of that has disappeared.

You’re no longer their priority, and you feel like they don’t care for you at all anymore. I know it makes you sad, but you should also be aware that it may be because of so many other reasons. It doesn’t have to mean they’re definitely cheating on you.

45. Hanno tradito anche i loro ex partner

This is also a warning sign your partner may be cheating on you. When a person cheats once, there’s a good chance they’ll do it again.

Sarebbe bello se poteste scoprire qualcosa di più sulla loro relazione passata con l'infedeltà.

If they’re repeating some of those patterns again, then things are pretty clear… They’re cheating on you just like they did their exes.

46. They’ve suggested taking a relationship break

They don’t want an actual breakup but a relationship break. Meaning that they need time to figure out what is happening in their heart and mind and to choose a side.

It’s up to you whether you’ll accept that relationship break or not. Ma il mio consiglio è che ogni volta che una persona sente il bisogno di scegliere tra voi e un'altra persona, dovreste lasciare che sia lei a scegliere l'altra persona.

If they loved you, they wouldn’t feel the need to choose in the first place!

47. La verità è che nessuno dei due è più felice nella sua relazione.

Maybe you’re trying to suppress it deep down, or you’re ignoring it, but the truth is, you aren’t happy with your partner anymore. And it’s clear you don’t make them happy either.

It may be because you’ve noticed these possible signs of their infidelity. Unfortunately, that isn’t important anymore.

L'unica cosa importante è che non vi rendete più felici l'un l'altro e, qualunque sia il motivo, dovreste pensare solo a risolverlo o a porre fine alla vostra relazione.

48. They use the good old ‘it’s not you, it’s me’ excuse

I swear this is the most wrong, lamest way to break up with someone. It’s like you’re trying to comfort them by blaming yourself even though it’s obvious that you’re the one to blame.

However, it’s possible that your partner regrets the way they betrayed you, and they’re aware of how much they hurt you.

Questa scusa per la rottura rivela sicuramente che si sentono in colpa per qualcosa che hanno fatto a voi e si sentono in colpa anche per la fine della vostra relazione.

49. Deep down, you know for sure they’re cheating on you

If your gut is telling you that something wrong is going on in your relationship, it’s a bad sign that your partner is really doing something bad behind your back.

Unfortunately, many people decide to ignore their inner voice and gut feeling because they think it can’t be true.

However, the fact is, if you don’t have a reason to doubt them, your gut feeling wouldn’t be so loud, and it wouldn’t be so desperately trying to warn you about your SO’s betrayal.

Vedi anche: Tradimento in una relazione a distanza: 15 segni e modi per affrontarli

Cosa fare se si sospetta che il partner ci tradisca?

Il passo logico successivo sarebbe catturare l'imbroglione. You can’t just break up with someone because your doubts aren’t backed up with legit proof.

Of course, these signs of infidelity can help you figure out whether your partner is cheating on you. However, even if you’ve recognized most of these signs, you still need to find real shreds of evidence.

Se scoprite che il vostro partner vi è infedele, l'ultima cosa da fare è rimanere in silenzio e non fare nulla.

You need to confront them, listen to what they have to say in their defense, and decide whether you’ll forgive them or andare avanti da quella relazione.

Dovete essere consapevoli di una cosa: andare avanti con una relazione dopo una relazione emotiva è tutt'altro che facile. Tuttavia, rompere con una persona che si ama sinceramente e lasciarla nel proprio passato è sicuramente ancora più difficile.

In ogni caso, la decisione spetta a voi e dovreste essere molto cauti nel parlarne!

Una nota finale

Have you recognized most of these 49 signs of a cheating partner in your relationship? If you have, then, unfortunately, I have bad news for you… Your significant other is most likely being unfaithful to you.

This isn’t the end of the world for you, and it most definitely doesn’t have to be the end of your relationship. Se amate il vostro partner e pensate di poterlo perdonare, fatelo e cercate di sistemare e salvare la vostra relazione.

There definitely isn’t a reasonable explanation for their betrayal, but you should give them a chance to tell you what made them do it. Se si vuole andare avanti con la vostra relazione, dovete superarla e lasciarvela alle spalle.

Focus on your future and work on your relationship so something like this never happens again. And if you just can’t forgive your partner, then focus on yourself… Heal and move on by yourself.