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Gemini And Virgo Compatibility In Love And Friendship

Gemini And Virgo Compatibility In Love And Friendship

Everything you’ve heard is true. These two horoscope signs are truly bound to be unhappy! Gemini and Virgo, with their many differences, can’t seem to comprehend one another.

However, you are aware that nothing is truly impossible, right?

They can overcome each obstacle… only if they want it badly enough.

How can they do that? What are their differences in the first place? How compatible are they in love, sex, marriage, and friendship?

If you continue reading, you will find all your answers… and much more.

Do Gemini And Virgo Get Along?

couple sitting on couch laughing

Well, not quite, but they are still drawn to one another.

Why? One answer – their intellect.

Both Gemini and Virgo thrive on mentally stimulating discussions. This makes them a perfect match as far as their intellectual sides are concerned.

Gemini often gets bored with people because they seek excitement. They move from one place to another to find it. They are rarely satisfied…for long.

This is why they are attracted to Virgo’s mind. Perhaps they are too chaotic and emotional for the Gemini and unwilling to follow them on their adventures (without a thorough analysis), but Virgo takes Gemini on adventures of the mind.

Are Gemini And Virgo Compatible?

young couple fighting on couch

Not quite.

Virgo is actually one of the signs that are LEAST compatible with Gemini, along with Pisces. On the other hand, signs that are most compatible with them are Aries, Leo, Libra, and Aquarius.

Now, when it comes to Virgo, they are most compatible with Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio, and Capricorn and least compatible with Gemini and Sagittarius.

It doesn’t sound very promising, does it?

Both Gemini and Virgo are ruled by the planet Mercury, which is the planet of communication. They seek intellectual stimulation and are filled with curiosity.

Still, their differences often don’t allow them to form a good relationship.

And what are those?

Gemini is an air sign. They are spirited extroverts, always eager to go places and experience new adventures without thinking too much about it. Their symbol is the twins, which represents their duality, so they are very fickle in nature.

Virgo, on the other hand, is an earth sign. Their symbol is the maiden, and they are sensitive introvert s who tend to overanalyze every little thing. This is why they can never be at rest, especially in the company of someone as changeable as a Gemini.

Nevertheless, if they manage to overcome these differences and embrace each other as they are, they will be capable of creating a meaningful connection.

Overcoming them comes even harder for the Gemini, though, as they constantly seek excitement, unlike Virgo. But, for some reason, they are extremely attracted to them, making this connection indeed possible.

Think about it.

Gemini And Virgo Compatibility In Love

man comforts sad woman

‘Love conquers all,‘ Virgil said. Was he right?

We’ve learned that Gemini and Virgo have opposing personalities that make it hard for them to love each other the way they want.

Venus in Gemini tends to be very flirty, whereas Venus in Virgo is loving and loyal to a fault.

But, if Virgo sees that the relationship isn’t working out, they will move on from Gemini with ease. And Gemini will leave, too, in order to find something that truly fulfills them.

But, can they fulfill each other?

Is a Gemini and Virgo relationship possible?

The answer is yes.

As we’ve just established, their flexibility allows them to make it possible despite that the Gemini-Virgo love compatibility is very low. After all, it isn’t all so bad. They have similarities, too, and just like any relationship, there are pros and cons.

What pros and cons would that be, though? Well, stay tuned because you’re about to be informed.

Pros Of A Gemini And Virgo Relationship

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Since they are ruled by the same planet, Gemini and Virgo share certain traits. Those traits are what makes their relationship more likely to succeed.

If they truly love each other, they will find a way to make things work, and these similarities will help them achieve that:

Mutability

Both Gemini and Virgo are mutable signs, which means that they are comfortable with change. Life continues its unpredictable course, but they embrace it.

Their ability to adapt can also be of great help in a relationship. Despite the low compatibility, this increases their chances for compromise.

Both of them are very rational, plus Virgo is a natural caretaker of the people they love. This is why their adaptability doesn’t make them susceptible to being a doormat. They both know what they have to offer and won’t just give in to the other’s wishes.

Their relationship is made more likely due to their incredible flexibility.

Healthy communication

How lucky that these two signs are both ruled by the planet of communication!

This actually makes them a great love match because even if issues arise (and they will), they will be able to talk it out like adults instead of fighting or using the silent treatment.

They believe in the power of honest communication, so their course of action is addressing the issue openly to solve it.

Granted, given their differences, there will be many problems to solve. But, now that we know this little fact, doesn’t it all seem a bit more hopeful? Isn’t this what we all desire in a relationship? Sounds dreamy, indeed!

Their similarities

Now, I know we’ve already mentioned this one, but it is crucial and, therefore, needs to be mentioned again. The curiosity these two zodiac signs share is what most draws them to each other.

Quite frankly, if it weren’t for this, they probably wouldn’t approach each other in a million years.

Having stimulating conversations is what keeps them together. Gemini is especially bewitched by Virgo due to this trait. Virgo, on the other hand, is sometimes annoyed by Gemini’s superficial ideas of the world.

Their differences

Yes, you’ve read that right. Haven’t you ever fallen in love with someone who is the complete opposite of you?

Well, Virgo actually finds Gemini’s insatiable energy and thirst for life attractive. Gemini, on the other hand, values Virgo’s ability to think and feel deeply.

Both have something the other lacks and (sometimes, secretly) desires to have.

So, really, their differences don’t have to necessarily drive them apart but rather inspire them to see life in a new light.

Cons Of A Gemini And Virgo Relationship

unhappy couple sitting on sofa after fight

It’s now time to dig a little deeper into what makes Gemini and Virgo such an unlikely pair.

What is it that makes their relationship compatibility so low? Are its cons so strong that they are able to ruin them forever?

Well, they indeed are, and this is what they are:

Different natures

Virgo seeks a trustworthy person, and Gemini is anything but. This doesn’t mean that they are undeserving but rather that they’re fickle, and you never know what they’re going to do next.

This creates a problem because Virgo needs constant reassurance, since they never truly believe that they’re worthy of being loved. The changeability of Gemini creates even more doubts than Virgo usually has.

Gemini, in turn, is annoyed by Virgo’s trust issues and simply wants to enjoy life without having to hear their analyses.

Another problem is that Virgo is a perfectionist and has a tendency to judge. They set high standards, and if you don’t live up to them, they aren’t going to be pleased.

This is yet another thing that annoys Gemini because they’re the fun, relaxed type. They simply don’t see life nor experience love the same way.

Different approaches to life

Even though they’re both mutable signs, how they handle change is slightly different. Gemini accepts it wholeheartedly, eager to have a new adventure, whereas their Virgo partner tends to analyze what it’s going to be like.

This can be exhausting because Gemini loves going with the flow.

They may get bored with Virgo’s tendency to overthink, whereas Virgo, on the other hand, can get annoyed with Gemini’s constant optimism and their inability to understand their complex feelings.

Pieces of advice to keep in mind:

• Humans are flawed. Stop seeking perfection.

• Celebrate your differences. Don’t let them break you apart.

• Don’t just assume that you can’t trust them. Nothing is what it seems.

• It’s okay to love life differently. What’s important is that you love each other.

Gemini And Virgo Compatibility In Sex

couple holding each other in bed

Yet again, these two astrological signs differ from each other. While Virgo loves routine, their Gemini partner is marked by their energy and experimentation.

What does this mean?

Well, when Virgo discovers what makes sex perfect for them, they won’t feel the need to explore the matter any further. They aren’t eager to be satisfied in new, exciting ways. Doing it only one way will never bore them, nor will it lessen their sexual experience.

Gemini, on the other hand, will get bored by this personality trait. They couldn’t possibly imagine themselves repeating the same sexual scenario numerous times.

If they don’t experiment with positions, places, and ways to be sexually satisfied, that just isn’t ‘it’ for them.

Virgo, too, might find this insatiable thirst for different experiences tiring, especially when Gemini openly expresses their feelings. This is why it’s important not to blame each other.

Let’s be honest, it’s not fair to ask for either of the signs to be who they’re not. However, if they really want their relationship to work, a compromise must be achieved.

Gemini Man And Virgo Woman

happy couple flirting having breakfast

Gemini men are a little flighty. You never know what to expect from them.

Is he playing you, or does he like you? If he likes you, how do you keep him in love?

It is hard, especially for a Virgo woman who needs reassurance every day that you adore her. She isn’t the type to ignore Gemini but rather the one that walks away when things don’t look promising.

He can become tired of this attitude, which will cause him to distance himself. The only thing that can help this troubled pair is their desire to communicate.

Not all hope is lost!

Gemini Woman And Virgo Man

Is a Virgo man-Gemini Woman match at least more likely? Quite possibly to your surprise, yes.

Now, how is that possible? Are they not doomed, too?

Well, long story short, they do share the same problems as the previous pair but still have incredible chemistry.

If they manage to develop a friendship first, then their relationship will flourish, too.

Gemini And Virgo Compatibility In Marriage

woman putting wedding ring on groom

Being pledged to someone for life is a serious commitment. It takes effort, even more so when you are a Gemini and a Virgo.

Are these two signs really able to honor the vows they made to each other?

Are they able to form an everlasting union without it ever falling apart?

Well, one thing’s for certain – if they’ve decided to sign the papers, that means that they’re ready to put in the necessary work to sustain their marriage. That means that they love each other enough to do their best to get past their differences.

How likely is it that this marriage will last?

That depends.

If there is no empathy in the relationship, it is doomed from the start. You can’t expect something to work if you’re not willing to understand the other person.

Constant criticism will only build resentment, which will eventually cause the marriage to fall apart.

So, if you’re a Gemini, let Virgo be in their little bubble of comfort and seek pleasure by yourself. If you’re a Virgo, you can sometimes sacrifice what you want for the sake of love and seek pleasure along with them.

The bottom line is that you don’t need to change any part of yourselves but rather just learn how to live with each other and make each other happy, even if that sometimes means not doing what you want.

Are Gemini And Virgo Soulmates?

happy couple driving in car

They can be.

What are soulmates, if not people who defy the universe that conspires to ruin their love?

If Gemini and Virgo decide that their love is much stronger than any difference that sets them apart, they will work it out. Yes, it’s all about mutual effort. Love has never been enough.

How many times has something ruined even the most loving of relationships? Yes, too many times. Therefore, it is on these two signs to work hard to maintain a healthy relationship.

If they’re really soulmates, why all the effort?

I know that when you hear the word ‘soulmate,’ you instantly think of an effortless union between two people where everything goes smoothly. Well, that just doesn’t exist.

A soulmate relationship requires work just like any other. It’s just a little more elevated than the rest of them, more worth fighting for.

Is your relationship worth fighting for? Do you think you can put your differences aside and just enjoy parts of each other that make it work?

Gemini And Virgo Friendship Compatibility

man and woman walking drinking coffee

You guessed right – the Virgo-Gemini compatibility in friendship isn’t any higher than in romance. Their opposing personalities come between them yet again. But, how?

Well, Virgo might be the therapist of their friend group, but they have a hard time opening up themselves. You have to earn their trust before they let you know what’s going on in their head.

A Gemini is the most unlikely choice of all. The judgmental Virgo wants perfection in everything, so their fickle nature isn’t at all tempting.

Still, both Gemini and Virgo are rational people who tend to follow their brains instead of their hearts. They are both good communicators as well as listeners. Their curiosity is unparalleled, and all of this draws them to one another.

However, they only get along superficially. Once they dive deeper into their friendship, they realize that they don’t have much in common.

Of course, there are always exceptions. Strive to be one of them.

Final Thoughts

hugging couple on boat

See? It’s not so bad. Gemini and Virgo may have low zodiac compatibility, but that doesn’t mean they’re incapable of loving each other.

It’s all about respecting your loved one and embracing what makes you different. Differences aren’t necessarily bad. We make them bad. We turn them into something they were never meant to be.

Keep that in mind and inspire each other instead. Besides, wouldn’t it be a rather dull world if we were all the same?

P.S. To find out if you are truly compatible, don’t just rely on your sun sign compatibility but also check out your moon sign compatibility and dig deeper into your birth charts. There’s much more to this than you think.

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