What are the signs someone is thinking about you? Is there a definite way of finding out that someone likes you?
Of course, there is. The universe has a unique (and often funny) way of letting us know when someone is thinking of us.
If you experience a sudden change of emotional state, random hiccups, repeated sneezing, or similar, these are legit signs someone is thinking about you! (We’ll talk about these signs in detail later, so stay tuned!)
Have you ever been in a situation where you cannot understand how and why it happened?
It just leaves you speechless because you had a hunch that something was going to happen or it’s the same as being able to read someone’s mind. It happened to me numerous times.
One time, my husband and I were at home, minding our own business. The two of us were doing something completely unrelated to one another.
We didn’t even speak to each other because we were working. And then all of a sudden, we started singing the same song, from the same verse, at the same time.
And that was not the first or the last time that happened, or stuff similar to that. We often finish each other’s sentences and sometimes only one look from one of us is enough to understand what the other is thinking.
I guess what I’m trying to say is that people share some kind of telepathic connection. There is definitely a greater bond that is untouchable and invisible. You can only feel it.
7 Sure Signs Someone Is Thinking About You
1. Subconscious smile
Your body reacts how your mind tells it to react; many of us are not even aware of that. You have almost definitely been in a situation where you were acknowledged for something you did and at that moment, you were over the moon with joy.
But maybe the situation wasn’t appropriate for you to show your happiness to the world. Like getting acknowledged in front of your friend who was having a very hard time at that moment.
Of course, you weren’t going to rub your happiness in your friend’s face, so you tried to cool it down a bit.
Although you had to remain serious, one smile sneaked onto your face even though you were struggling to keep it in. But you couldn’t. It’s a reaction that cannot be stopped.
It’s a physical manifestation of the signals your brain is receiving. It’s the same with someone who likes you and is constantly thinking about you.
When you see that person, you will see a smile worth a thousand words. He will smile at you like you have been friends for ages, despite the fact he only met you yesterday. You will be his biggest accomplishment, the reason behind his happiness or blushing.
When you look at him, you just know that there is something more going on than just being nice and polite. You can feel that there is so much more than meets the eye, and that’s your subconscious telling you he’s thinking of you.
Your appearance, your face and the fact that he sees you are the reason behind his smile, the one he just can’t contain.
2. Tingling sensation in the face area
If you aren’t sick, don’t feel warm or embarrassed by something, and you still have the burning sensation in your ears or cheek, that’s an almost proven sign that someone is thinking about you.
It feels like you’ve been slapped in the face quite a few times. You can’t figure out the cause of that awkward and a bit uncomfortable sensation but it’s still there and you can’t make it stop.
From a medical point of view, the burning sensation and flushed skin may be an emotional response to some strong emotional experiences.
In Layman’s terms, when a person experiences an emotional shock or gets overwhelmed by strong emotions, ear burning and face tingling are some of the most common consequences.
In most cultures, it’s believed that if your left ear turns red, that means that someone is gossiping about you or that a person close to you is talking about you behind your back.
On the other hand, if both of your ears get blushed and begin to burn without a proper reason, it’s a surefire sign someone is thinking about you.
3. Sudden emotional changes
This has almost definitely happened to you, only you probably didn’t understand why it happened. You were in a good mood, cracking jokes, laughing your ass off.
You were in a kind of euphoric state. Everything that happened at that moment you took was positive and beautiful.
But then all of a sudden, a huge change of emotional state occurred. You started to feel depressed, like someone or something drained you completely. You didn’t want to smile or crack jokes.
The only thing you wanted to do was to retreat, close up, and feel negative and sad or depressed. Probably right at that moment, someone was thinking about you. This is also one of the Law of Attraction signs someone is thinking about you. They are manifesting you using the Law of Attraction.
You see, our subconscious is trying to tell us things but in a different way, the only way it knows how.
Your spirit felt it. That person’s energy interfered with yours, which caused you to change in a split second. It messed up your energy field and that is what led you to the change of state.
4. Your subconscious brings you close together
Have you ever wondered why and how people fall in love with each other? Or, to be more specific, have you ever wondered how men fall in love with you? What is something that brings you closer and closer to that person?
Well, once again, this has something to do with your subconscious and the vibes that are surrounding you and are so obvious it’s like they are touching you. Sadly, people often don’t recognize happiness even if it hits them right in the face.
When they want to fall in love, people are subconsciously looking for those who can satisfy their needs—someone who can complete them and someone who can do everything they can’t. Your subconscious wants to find a way to bring that person into your life.
Once again, spiritual messages are transferring into something touchable—something real and physical.
If the person who is thinking about you is the right one for you, you will meet sooner or later. And when you meet, you will definitely find out that life tried to get the two of you together many times.
Maybe you both knew the same people but always passed by each other in a second. You were probably in the same places at the same time. Maybe you were even in a bar drinking back-to-back.
Your subconscious felt the connection, and it brought you closer to each other until it actually brought you together for good.
5. Strange eye movements
If you’re dealing with allergies or any other eye conditions, you can exclude this sign. But if you’re not and your eye suddenly goes crazy, that could be your mind sensing something.
A sudden itch or twitching of your eye could be a legit sign someone is thinking about you. But, there is a catch.
Just because you’re on someone’s mind, this doesn’t have to mean they like you. It doesn’t have to mean they are thinking positively about you. It can be the other way around. They could be trash-talking you or mentioning you in any other negative way.
And believe it or not, there’s a way to tell if someone has negative or positive thoughts toward you.
For example, if your right eye is itching or twitching, that means that someone is not so happy about you, but if your left eye does the same, someone is either in love with you or getting there.
And for men, it goes the other way around. So basically, if their right eye twitches, someone is praising them, while for the left eye it means someone is trash-talking them or thinking about them in a bad way.
6. Tense mind
The human mind is extraordinary. It’s so magical and partly unexplored. It has limitless power. Try to just think of all the things you can do with your mind. Even trying to set a boundary in our mind is impossible, isn’t it?
So, think about how many ideas you can produce and how many solutions you can find to pretty much anything. You just have to crack the code to use your mind to the fullest, or at least to try to do that.
Has it ever happened that you were eating something and you started choking? Or drinking water, and it went down the wrong pipe, leaving you tearing up and gasping for air?
That is because your mind is creating tension. Your mind feels your name coming out from someone else’s mouth. Your mind is trying to warn you to open your eyes and look around.
Also, if someone is bad-mouthing you, your mind will send you a physical signal. It will once again create tension that will manifest itself through a physical reaction, like blood rushing to your cheeks. If there is no reason for you to blush, why is it happening to you?
Do you have an explanation? Basically, their negative energy affects you in a way like they slapped you from afar.
On the other hand, another one of the signals is hiccups. They are also one of the signs of a tense mind and negative energy.
Hiccups usually mean that someone is complaining about you. Which basically means drama. The unnecessary drama involving you leads to negative energy that you eventually sense.
Someone could be complaining about you just to make themself feel or look better. And if you get hiccups only when you are in the company of a certain person, that could be a sign that that person is the one who is complaining.
No one can explain why these things happen. But one thing we can do is to acknowledge that there is something greater than just us and our physical lives. There is something spiritual in our subconscious and surrounding us—and we need to respect that.
Our subconscious will always send us physical signs but it’s up to us whether we’re going to accept them or keep our eyes shut and continue living in beautiful ignorance.
7. Positive energy
Our mind is truly remarkable, and as it’s capable of sensing negative energy and bad-mouthing, it can also sense when someone loves us and supports us. Even if they are miles away, our mind can feel them, as if we are connected.
Couples feel physical sensations that can tell them that their partner is thinking about them.
They manifest in either a feeling of a rub on the back or arm or a fleeting touch on a cheek; they can literally sense their partner touching them, even though they are separated at that moment.
Another way couples can feel their connection is when they feel an uplifting of energy or overall feeling. It happens when a person is feeling broken, down or depressed and they can literally sense a switch of their energy, just because their partner is thinking about making them feel better.
Another sign someone is thinking about you in a positive, or to be more precise, loving way, is your ears burning.
You know that feeling when they are suddenly warm and you can actually feel how they are turning red and it feels like they are on fire, but it’s still a good feeling. For once, fire feels good. That’s one of the signs someone has a secret crush on you and is thinking about you at that moment.
And you know that kind of sneeze that sort of shakes your entire body and is so loud, so powerful, that there is no way you can stop it? And there is no particular reason it happened?
Like, there is no dust around you, you have no allergies and you didn’t sense your nose itching before it. That kind of sneeze usually means that someone is thinking about you, and that someone is missing you madly. (This is a popular psychic sign in Asian culture.)
Can You Really Feel When Someone Is Thinking About You?
Yes, you can really feel when someone is thinking or talking about you because when they do so, they send out energy vibrations to you.
These vibrations (energy signals created by telepathy) will interfere with your state of mind meaning that when you’re feeling sad, you might find yourself suddenly happy for no apparent reason and similar.
The point is that life does not consist only of physical appearance and interaction; there must be something deeper than that. There must be some kind of spiritual energy and force which makes us feel one another and unknowingly know each other’s thoughts and acts.
And it is. It’s our subconscious mind.
We pick up vibrations and other people’s feelings unconsciously. You know when you get the feeling you have to do something but you cannot explain why you have to do it?
You just know you have to. It sits there in your mind and it bothers you. There is something you know you have to do that your gut, or your instinct or whatever, is telling you.
Well, often those inner signals that we pick up on manifest themselves in a physical manner and we are not aware of it.
Try to look at it from this perspective. It has probably happened to you where you felt like you were getting sick and you surrendered—you already imagined yourself sick, running a high fever and chained to the bed.
Then you really got sick. It was a no-brainer. You accepted the fact you were getting sick, and you did. That is how powerful our subconscious is.
You see, you were receiving those ‘untouchable’ signals and you accepted them, and therefore you invited them to take a physical form.
It’s the same with signs someone is thinking of you. You just know. You feel his thoughts—of course, only if you want to feel and recognize them. If you are in denial, nothing will make you see and feel the signs and there won’t be any point because your subconscious will still be locked inside you.
Now, these thoughts and vibes you are receiving manifest themselves physically; you actually get physical reactions when someone is thinking of you.
How To Know If Someone Is Thinking About You Sexually?
What are the signs someone is thinking of you sexually? When someone is thinking about you in a sexual manner, they exhibit sexual energy. This powerful sexual energy manifests in their actions and their body language.
Gravitating towards you
Distance won’t matter. You will bump into each other in the most random places regardless of the distance between the two of you.
This happened to me multiple times. I still remember vividly the last time it happened to me and it wasn’t so long ago. I was going out for a drink with my friend, so we parked the car and were heading toward our favorite bar.
All of a sudden, my friend realized that he forgot to bring any money so he had to withdraw some cash from the ATM which was on the other side of the street. As we were approaching it, I suddenly felt burning sensations in my cheeks which was really confusing.
After a few seconds, we bumped into my old friend with whom I was stuck in an ‘almost relationship‘ for some time. I thought to myself: Seriously, what are the odds? We don’t even live in the same city.
The universe truly has a funny way of working.
Truth be told, I was thinking about him a few days ago and I just couldn’t believe that all of a sudden he was THERE in front of me. The next day he texted me on social media and the rest is history. (I don’t need to tell you everything, right?)
The urge to get touchy with you
When we bumped into my old friend, he gave me a BIG hug immediately and also kissed me on the cheek (which I found oddly satisfying). As we hugged for a few seconds, I felt this immense energy pervading my body. Obviously, what I felt was his sexual energy that was exhibited through the power of physical touch.
A tendency to fix their appearance around you is also one of the strong signs someone is thinking about you in a sexual manner.
When someone is strongly attracted to you, they become extra aware of their appearance around you. I didn’t notice this before because, obviously, I wasn’t paying attention to it but now that I do, I can tell you that it’s totally TRUE.
If someone is thinking of you sexually, they will start fixing their hair, tie, or clothes when they’re around you. In other words, they will try their best to make themselves look attractive to you. Why?
Because they want you and they’re powerfully attracted to you. If you’re not sure if they are exhibiting sexual energy around you, just listen to your intuition and higher self. Intuition never lies. If that little voice in your head is telling you that there is strong sexual energy between the two of you, believe it.
When you can’t stop thinking about someone, this can mean that you’re also on their mind BUT this is not always the case. It’s not definitive that the reason why you can’t stop thinking about them is that they can’t stop thinking about you.
This could be your loved one, your friend, your ex, or in some cases, a complete stranger. When that happens, the struggle is real, I know.
If you can’t stop thinking about someone, in the majority of cases this means that you have a strong connection and psychic abilities. Indeed, the ability to sense when you’re on someone’s mind also relies on your psychic power.
One of my friends has recently experienced this ‘can’t stop thinking about someone’ phenomenon and she decided to do her research. She was convinced that that one person she was thinking of was also thinking about her.
Since she’s always been bold by nature, she simply texted him and asked him openly and honestly: I was wondering if you were thinking about me lately?
To my amazement (and hers as well), he told her: To be honest, yes I did. How did you know?! She replied: Well, you were on my mind, too, and now I understand why.
I was speechless. Right then is when I started believing in the fact that when you can’t stop thinking about someone, chances are high it’s because they can’t stop thinking of you as well.
If you want to stop thinking about someone
Constantly thinking about that one person can be draining. It can influence your mental health and how you function on a daily basis. Literally, you become unable to focus on anything else except THEM.
Even if this is your partner that you’re thinking about, sometimes you can’t help but feel like inventing an off switch when you can no longer stand thinking of them.
No matter how cliche it sounds, whenever you want to stop thinking about that one person, you need to decide to think about something completely different like that new TV show, your hobby, friends, your job, and similar.
You need to stay active and preoccupy yourself with things that you enjoy doing. I certainly know what to do when I can’t stop thinking about HIM. I immediately go for a walk or call my best friend and ask her to do something fun.
Sometimes, we pretend to be foreigners in our own city (this method is my favorite), and other times we go to the cinema or for a drink.
Socializing with others will help you stop thinking about that one specific person because you’ll be focused on other people in your life. It’s as simple as that.
How Do I Know If He’s Thinking About Me?
No, you don’t need to check his horoscope every five minutes to know if you’re on his mind. If he’s always asking you LOTS OF personal questions, if he’s listening to you and wants to know everything about you, then you know he’s thinking of you.
So, how do you know someone is thinking about you?
Sometimes these signs are obvious, but other times they are a little bit more complex. Here are some obvious signs that indicate you’re on his mind:
- He mentions that something reminded him of you
- He’s always happy in your presence
- He remembers everything about you
- He’s putting in a lot of effort to make you happy
- Says he’s been thinking of you
All these are good signs about what type of thoughts he has about you. If he wasn’t interested in you and if you weren’t on his mind, he wouldn’t bother asking you questions or going out of his way to make you happy.
If he sends you emotional ‘thinking of you’ messages or ‘thinking of you’ quotes, then you can be one hundred percent sure that you’re on his priority list (and on his mind).
Here are some not so obvious (physical) signs you’re on his mind:
- Random hiccups
- You get goosebumps out of the blue
- Flushed ears
- Mood changes
Yup, I agree that random hiccups are totally annoying but if this means that we’re on another person’s mind (preferably that ONE specific person), then we can live with it.
If your negative thoughts are suddenly replaced with a wave of positivity, this is also a good sign that you’re on someone’s mind. It is also one of the clear signs your soulmate is thinking of you.
Also, if you lost a loved one to whom you were very close and you find a white feather, this is one of the signs they are thinking of you in the other world. You see, sometimes these psychic signs aren’t physical and they don’t have to be.
If you still feel a little bit skeptical about this whole ‘thinking of someone’ thing, here are more signs that indicate you’re on someone’s mind, so indulge yourself!
Our mind and body are connected in ways we are still incapable of understanding and the best thing we can do is to stop for a second and admire nature itself—this great masterpiece we are surrounded with, the masterpiece we are ourselves.
So, the next time you sense any of these signs someone is thinking about you, give yourself some time to feel them and pay attention to what your senses are telling you.