50 dolorosas señales de que tu marido ya no está enamorado de ti

¿Qué harías si reconocieras algunos de los signos más evidentes your husband isn’t in love with you anymore? Especially if you’ve been with him for a long time… if you two have kids, and if you were 100% sure you’d grow old with him?

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50 Clear Signs Your Husband Isn’t In Love With You

Le presento las señales de advertencia más comunes de que su el marido no está enamorado de ti más. Así que lee con atención porque esta puede ser tu última oportunidad para salvar tu matrimonio.

1. You’ve been doubting it for a very long time now

Okay, let’s lay all our cards on the table and be completely honest.

You’re here searching for these signs, and that’s quite a buena señal que algo falla. El hecho es que si estuvieras seguro de tu husband’s love, you wouldn’t be here right now.

And, you aren’t here because your husband’s behavior towards you changed two or three days ago… you’re here because you noticed it a while ago.

Te diste cuenta de todos esos pequeñas cosas that were clearly showing that something has changed, and you ignored them. Or, you tried hard to ignore them because you were afraid that your greatest nightmare could become reality and you couldn’t allow it…

However, now is time to confront your fears and find out the real truth about your significant other’s feelings. So, these are the signs you should look out for.

2. Ausencia de comunicación

If your husband has stopped communicating with you and you feel that something’s amiss, it’s a sign that he is slowly falling out of amor contigo.

Sé que algunos de ustedes dirán que falta de comunicación doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you, and I completely agree with that. However, a female’s gut is something you should never neglect because in 99.99% of cases, it’s correct.

If you notice that the two of you just keep quiet in the house while you’re doing your thing and he’s doing his, that’s just a signal of the beginning of marital problems.

If this is happening for the first time, I’m advising you not to make a huge drama about it immediately. Ask him to talk, and tell him openly that you don’t feel good in a relationship without open and comunicación saludable.

As a possible solution, ask him if he’s willing to work on it with you.

Si dice que lo intentará, debes respetarlo y darle la oportunidad de demostrarlo. Por otro lado, si sigue mostrando una clara falta de interés, ya sabes cuál debe ser tu siguiente paso.

3. Todo el esfuerzo es unilateral

Desde hace algún tiempo, tú eres la única que se esfuerza en vuestra relación. Hace tiempo que él dejó de trabajar en vuestro matrimonio y de hacer cosas bonitas por ti.

Se trata de un signo de falta de respeto – something no woman should put up with.

No debes ser tú quien cargue sobre sus espaldas con todas las responsabilidades de la relación. A matrimonio unilateral es un infeliz matrimonio¡y nunca puede durar toda la vida!

Tienes que pensar en tu propia bienestar. El objetivo de toda relación es tener a alguien que te cuide, te quiera y haga todo lo posible por ti.

But, if that’s not what you’re getting, you better think twice if he is the man you want to spend the rest of your life with. If someone doesn’t appreciate and reciprocate your efforts, that person doesn’t even deserve to have a place in your life.

4. Te da por sentado

Este es uno de los signos más evidentes your husband isn’t in love with you anymore.

Por sólo dándote por sentado, he thinks that no matter what you do, you’ll always be there and put up with his crap. He thinks that you love him and that you’ll forgive him for descuidándote todo el tiempo, mientras él presta toda su atención a otras mujeres.

Remember, that’s not the way a man in love would behave in front of his partner, so make sure that you talk to him about the possible problem.

Si continúa siendo grosero y dándote por sentada aún más, ya sabes lo que tienes que hacer.

The truth is, he won’t learn his lesson until you leave him and show him what it feels like to live without you.

5. Se acabó el respeto

La falta de respeto es una de las señales más fuertes que apuntan a un matrimonio infeliz.

Respect is the second name of love. If someone doesn’t respect you, they don’t love you either. It’s as simple as that.

Eso no es qué amor verdadero realmente es – don’t ever forget that. No matter how much you love him, show him that you will never put up with being disrespected. Show him that you can be perfectly fine on your own, and that you don’t need him to complete you.

Give him a wake-up call, and if he refuses to pick up the phone, he can leave because you’ll feel much better on your own than with a toxic guy who doesn’t even give a damn about you.

6. Todo el afecto ha desaparecido

¿Recuerdas cuando estabas en un matrimonio feliz?… that fase de luna de miel donde tu pareja te colmaba de atenciones y afecto todos los días?

Esas mañanas mimos, dulces textos de amor, sorpresas románticas… all those pequeñas cosas que hacía cada día para hacerte sentir la mujer más feliz del mundo entero.

I know it hurts even to think about those things… everything has changed, and you simply don’t feel ready to face your new reality.

Pero debes hacerlo. Llegar al fondo de su comportamiento frío y luego decidir cuál será su próximo paso.

There are two possible outcomes; either he’ll admit why he dejó de ser cariñoso and you’ll try to understand him, or you’ll realize he doesn’t love you anymore and you’ll leave his lame ass.

7. You can’t even remember the last time he said ‘I love you’

Can you? But, hey… don’t count those times when he had to answer your ‘do you love me?’.

He probably answered affirmatively only because he didn’t want you to start a fight or start doubting his feelings.

Now, can you remember when the last time he expressed his love to you spontaneously was?… the last time he hugged you and told you those three simple words, ‘Te quiero‘?

No? Well, it’s probably because he doesn’t feel that way anymore, and he can’t keep looking into your eyes and lying to you.

8. Los cumplidos son historia antigua

Did he stop complimenting you? I’m assuming you’ve immediately started thinking that it’s your fault, right? Maybe you gained weight or got a few wrinkles on your face.

Well, it’s not your fault even if those things are true. Elogie a su ser querido es un signo inequívoco of showing affection, and your husband obviously feels that he shouldn’t be affectionate with you.

9. Las peleas se han convertido en algo habitual en su matrimonio

If you can no longer have any normal conversation with him and he says that you are at fault for all the problems between you two, it’s obvious that he has no problem in making you feel bad.

La verdad es que todos los matrimonios pasan por zonas difíciles. And, that’s why you should check if this is something that will be present in your life for only a short time or if it will continue longer before you confront him about it.

Whatever you do, don’t let your happiness slip through your fingers. Instead, try to salva tu relación preguntándole por las razones por las que siente y actúa así.

If he still cares, he’ll be happy that you asked, and you’ll find a way to deal with it together.

10. Se convirtió en el maestro de la técnica del desplazamiento de culpas.

Peleas constantes y echar la culpa a otros are the most serious red flags that he doesn’t love you anymore.

Blame-shifting is a common tactic that people who don’t have the guts to break something off on their own use to get you to leave first.

That’s how they can blame everything on you later on when you leave.

They’ll say it’s not them, it’s you – you were the one who left, while no one actually knows what he did to you to get you to that point.

11. He’s irritated when you speak

Whatever you say, it’s stupid to him. If you talk about your company and the great things that you’ve achieved at work and he still thinks it’s stupid, then it’s obvious that your man doesn’t respect you.

Just imagine how he would feel if you did the same thing to him? He’d probably leave you the second you told him that he was boring. You don’t deserve someone who will disrespect you like this.

You deserve a loving and caring man who’ll be your support. So, don’t let him belittle you just so he can feel okay.

Debería saber que la clave de una buena relación es en realidad una buena comunicación y que los dos deben ser abiertos sobre todo.

Dile que en caso de que ya no esté enamorado de ti, puede seguir adelante y tener una gran vida, pero esta vez, sin ti.

12. Las críticas constantes te están volviendo loco

It’s one thing when someone criticizes you to help you become better and stronger. That’s called crítica constructiva. No hay nada malo o perjudicial en ello.

Actually, you’ll have no problems discerning whether someone is criticizing you for your own good or just to hurt you.

If your husband is constantly up your business about things you cannot change, like your looks or your personality, and if he doesn’t let go even after telling him he’s hurting and insulting you, then his “benevolent” words are actually designed to undermine you.

13. Intenta destruir tu autoestima

It’s like he wants to make you believe that you’re indigno de amor. Or, more precisely, his love. He’s doing it just so he can be ‘clean’ once he ends things with you.

However, you should never allow anyone to even think about damaging or hurting your self-esteem. Believe me, that’s the most valuable part of yourself. If your man tries to make you feel insecure, you should end things between you ASAP.

Although it’s easy to say to someone, “déjalo,” it’s not that easy to actually do it.

Even though you’re already brokenhearted and angry with disappointment, some warm feelings are still present.

Así que, por favor, si esto ocurre, corta el cordón lo antes posible e intenta mantener tu autoestima.

14. Un aumento repentino de expectativas poco realistas

Siempre has tenido expectativas saludables el uno del otro y de vuestro matrimonio. Pero ahora, eso también ha cambiado.

Su marido ha empezado de repente a poner expectativas poco realistas, and he even gets mad when you tell him they’re unreachable.

He does it only because he doesn’t feel the same about you anymore, probably has someone else, and wants to make you leave him. He obviously doesn’t have the guts to be fair and put things in the right way.

15. Se volvió frío y distante

Si tu hombre no está disponible and cold when he is with you, even if you try to talk to him and solve the problem, there’s definitely something serious happening there.

If this continues to happen for a long time, he definitely doesn’t feel anything for you anymore. And it gets probably even more serious than you thought.

Not only does he not love you anymore, but he’s also probably already over you.

He’s just using you and he doesn’t even want to make some effort para ti o para tu matrimonio. Tal vez estaba en amor contigo antes, pero algo ha cambiado definitivamente.

Por otro lado, quizá nunca te quiso de verdad, pero te hizo creer que sí.

It was something that he needed at that time, but he has changed his opinion now. If that’s the case, you need to know that a guy who doesn’t know what he wants is not someone you need to be mixed up with.

16. Pasar tiempo contigo está al final de su lista de prioridades

El hecho es que cuando amas a alguien, querrás pasar todo el tiempo posible con esa persona. And, if you see your husband doesn’t want to pasar el tiempo contigo como antes, no dudes en preguntarle cuál es el motivo.

If your man doesn’t spend enough time with you or your kids, this is a huge red flag that something is off.

He’d rather pasar el tiempo con su mejores amigos y compañeros de trabajo que contigo, y debería ser al contrario. Tú y tu familia deberíais ser siempre su principal prioridad.

When your husband stops spending time with you, it is a clear indication that he doesn’t find you interesting anymore or that the two of you don’t have any good topics to talk about. Or, maybe he found someone he’s more eager to spend his time with.

Now, what you can do is to talk to him openly. Tell him that it’s okay if he lost interest, but that he should have let you know about that change.

17. He isn’t willing to compromise

Vale, hay algunos cosas que nunca debemos comprometer en un matrimonio; sin embargo, el verdadero problema surge cuando su cónyuge se niega a comprometerse en absoluto.

It’s an even bigger issue if he was willing to make compromises before, but now, all of a sudden, he strongly opposes it.

Through his unwillingness to compromise, he only shows you that he doesn’t give a damn about you or your marriage.

Ahora, la pregunta es: ¿estás segura de que quieres comprometer tu propia tranquilidad y felicidad por seguir con un hombre así?

18. Exigencias de (mucho) espacio

Vale, todo el mundo necesita espacio. Todo el mundo necesita una o dos horas al día para sí mismo.

But when this “tiempo a solas” becomes more frequent than it used to be, if your man is gone for hours or even days, then it’s an alarming sign that he’s trying to escape your marriage.

Even when you manage to have some time with him, he’ll be completely disconnected. I mean, he’ll be present physically, but he’ll be emotionally elsewhere.

Al final, perderás las ganas de pasar el tiempo con él, porque pasar el tiempo with someone who obviously doesn’t want to be by your side only makes things worse.

Forzarle a pasar tiempo de calidad sólo hará que la incómoda situación entre vosotros sea aún más extraña.

19. He’s bored with you

It’s normal that en un relación duradera there will be times when you’ll be bored with your spouse, and you just need to do some interesting things with him.

But if you see that your husband is bored only when he is with you and not when he’s doing his own thing, that’s a sign that something is terribly wrong.

Tal vez hay otra mujer en su vida and he is only thinking about her. Maybe he’s coming up with ways to meet her as soon as possible, and everything you say is boring to him.

Or perhaps there are problems he’s going through, but if he doesn’t talk to you and if you annoy him every time you say something, that’s not a good sign.

Sadly, based on what you’re reading, it seems that your relationship doesn’t have that much time left. If this behavior continues over a long period, it is a bad sign that your husband isn’t in love with you anymore.

20. Falta de intimidad

If he doesn’t want to be intimate with you, it means one of two things: either he has someone else to do that with or that he doesn’t find you attractive anymore.

Sea cual sea la razón, la situación no es lo suficientemente buena para a relación sana. Y el hecho es que falta de intimidad is one of the most obvious signs that your husband doesn’t love you.

Sé que estas cosas duelen, pero si aún le quieres, puedes intentar recuperarlo.

You can use some women’s tricks and invite him to bed, and thereby try to condimenta tu relación física. But if he doesn’t react very well to your tactic, it is time to say the despedida final.

21. O, por otro lado, la intimidad es el único campo de su matrimonio que realmente funciona

Sí, ésta también puede ser una de las señales de que algo va completamente mal en tu vida amorosa.

If he doesn’t want to have sex with you, it can be a signo sutil que tiene amor encontrado en otro lugar.

On the other hand, if he wants to have more sex than usual, or showing some new moves, that’s also a reason for concern because he had to have learned them somewhere.

La vida sexual y la intimidad física deben ser una parte importante de la vida de cada persona. relación sanaSin embargo, nunca debe convertirse en lo único importante.

If your husband wants sex without intimacy, it’s a clear sign that he’s using you. He doesn’t love you, nor does he care for your feelings… he only cares about fulfilling his own physical needs.

22. Os comportáis más como dos compañeros de piso que como una pareja romántica

It’s important for him to understand that you need to be intimate with him, and that if he doesn’t give you what you need, you’ll become distant. Actually, you’ll start cada vez más lejos.

Tell him that living like two complete strangers with someone you love is not what works for you and that you aren’t planning to play by his rules. If he doesn’t want to listen to you, pack your bags and leave.

Don’t cry over spilled milk. Seguir adelante con tu vida. Hay alguien especial esperándote ahí fuera.

23. Su conexión emocional está dañada

Según el famoso psicólogo Dr. John Gottman, la desconexión emocional es la principal causa de la mayoría de las discusiones y problemas en una relación.

To be honest, this doesn’t have to be only his guilt. That’s why you should work on improving your conexión emocional. Sugerir la ayuda de a consejero matrimonial.

If your man refuses to do anything about it, then he doesn’t care about salvar su matrimonioy eso significa que ya es hora de dejarlo.

If you’re giving him all your love and affection and he shows complete disinterest in making you happy, un hombre así no es digno de estar en tu vida.

24. Mira su matrimonio con ojos de ictericia

The moment your husband drops out from trying to solve problems, you know it’s over. When he no longer sees the point in fighting for your marriage, it’s already dead.

Todos los hombres son solucionadores naturales de problemas. Cuando ven un problema, se esfuerzan al máximo por encontrar la solución.

Lo hacen a diario en su vida cotidiana, lo que naturalmente le incluye a usted.

If he reaches the point where he’s sick and tired, and he has no strength to fight for your happiness, he’s probably thinking he doesn’t want to anymore, because… what’s the point?

He probably doesn’t even love you anymore, he just hasn’t admitted that to himself yet.

25. He doesn’t even care about things you ask him to do

Whenever you ask him to help you with something, he either keeps quiet or tells you that he doesn’t want to do it… he doesn’t help you with chores, kids, or anything else that you used to do together before.

Se trata de un signo destacado that he doesn’t care about you at all anymore. And, you shouldn’t put up with such behavior because you know it’s definitely not something you deserve.

The bottom line is, you can break every relationship down to the basics – you’re holding hands or you’re not, meaning he’s there for you or he’s not. It’s that simple.

26. Nunca te echa de menos

When partners don’t see each other for a while, the first time their eyes meet when they reunite can pretty much go hand in hand with the first time you noticed each other and fell in love.

Eso es amor. You are equally happy to see your partner, whether you’ve been apart for two days or two months.

Si tu marido se muestra indiferente cuando vuelves a casa después de un viaje de un par de días, tu relación corre serio peligro de desmoronarse.

Sometimes the signs are even more obvious that your husband was way happier when you weren’t around.

When you come back home, he is transparently unhappy that you’re back. If that’s not a good enough sign that he doesn’t love you, I don’t know what is.

27. Se volvió egoísta

He was never selfish because you were always his top priority. Now, things have changed, and it feels like he’s concerned excessively about himself.

If his priorities have changed, it’s an obvious sign that his feelings have changed, too.

You really don’t deserve someone who will only pay attention to you when he’s in the mood; one who will ignore you every time you need him. Basically, the point is that it wouldn’t be much of a waste to kick that egoísta, ególatra de tu vida.

28. Y, demasiado reservado

Se queda despierto hasta tarde, se manda mensajes durante horas con alguien, empieza a esconder su teléfono from you… and every time you ask him about those things, he simply changes the subject of conversation.

You think that you should doubt him, but it’s impossible not to because of all those obvious signs around him. He is hiding something, and that’s probably the reason why he has changed his behavior towards you…

29. Hay algunos rastros evidentes de infidelidad

Hay hombres que son propensos a engañar, y nunca cambian.

La cosa es que las mujeres pueden sentir cuando sus los hombres engañan on them. So if you think something isn’t right, it probably isn’t.

Puedes verlo por su cambio de comportamiento, su indiferencia, su falta de comunicacióny al final, su falta de amor.

Intenta llegar al fondo del asunto, y si resulta que he’s being unfaithful, leave him as soon as possible. Don’t let him make a fool out of you; you don’t deserve then.

30. You keep discovering his ‘white lies’

And, they’re everywhere. In addition to the way he behaves, he makes up some lame excuses and lies to you as well, which will be obvious from the start.

Every time you confront him about it, he gets nervous and accuses you of not trusting him. Yep, that’s the favorite técnica de manipulación de la mayoría de los hombres. El arte de echar la culpa a otros.

31. Se volvió demasiado protector con su teléfono

Why? It’s obvious… he’s hiding something from you.

Cuando amas de verdad a alguienno hay secretos, contraseñas ni nada oculto entre vosotros. When you truly love someone, you don’t do things that make them doubt your fidelity.

32. Al mismo tiempo, dejó de ser protector contigo

Solía ser todo amabilidad, dulzura y protección hacia ti, pero con el paso del tiempo, ese hermoso sentimiento se fue desvaneciendo poco a poco.

That is most definitely a sign that he doesn’t love you anymore. Love cannot disappear with time. It can only grow stronger or change forms; it can never vanish.

33. He isn’t jealous when another man approaches you

Muchos malinterpretan los celos matrimonios. Small doses of jealousy are actually healthy for your marriage because it’s a signo inequívoco de amor verdadero.

That’s why you should actually be worried when your partner stops being jealous.

If another man approaches you or if someone sends you a text and your husband shows complete indifference, it’s a bad sign he doesn’t love you anymore.

34. Peor aún, coquetea con otras mujeres delante de ti.

If your guy has never shown interest in other women, but he does now, it’s time to face the fact that he has changed and that he wants different things now.

If he didn’t have the need to flirt with other women until now, it’s an obvious sign that something has changed.

Y tiene todo el derecho a desenamorarse. Sin embargo, debería ser lo suficientemente justo como para terminar las cosas contigo como es debido antes de cometer cualquier estúpido error.

35. Se volvió abusivo

This doesn’t have to mean that he is physically abusing you… he might do it emotionally or verbally.

Sin embargo, todos y cada uno de esos tipos de abuso has the same meaning; the person who’s abusing you doesn’t give a single damn about you.

You need to show him that he can lose you in a second, and that he’ll never be able to win you back after how he has belittled you.

A man like this doesn’t deserve to have a woman like you in his life, so make sure to let him know that you can live without him. Trust me, your happiness will hurt him more than you think.

In the end, I just want you to know that you shouldn’t think it’s all your fault. I am highlighting this since many women believe they were at fault for being abused, which is way too wrong.

36. Siempre hay que tener cuidado con él

He objects to your behavior and he always has something to say, some negative comment to deliver – in a way, subtly telling you to stop what you’re doing.

He’s a ticking time bomb, and to make things clear, he can’t put up with you anymore.

If you haven’t changed, if you’re acting precisely the same as at the beginning, then it’s not your fault.

It is he who’s making you change and walk around on eggshells not to accidentally say something wrong that’ll trigger his anger.

37. Quiere que cambies de repente

Why? He fell in love with you, the real you… why does he have the need to change you right now?

En mi opinión, ese es sólo uno de sus expectativas poco realistas. Se está desenamorando poco a poco de ti y, o bien piensa que eso podría hacer que se volviera a enamorar de ti, o simplemente quiere hacer que solicites el divorcio.

38. Habla mal de ti delante de los demás

A man that talks bad about you behind your back doesn’t love you and that’s a surefire fact.

Hay varias razones posibles, pero la cuestión es que este acto es imperdonable. Vosotros dos deberíais ser los que estéis el uno al lado del otro en las peores situaciones, y defenderos mutuamente de todo y de todos.

39. Incluso intenta poner a tus seres queridos en tu contra

If he does this, it’s probably because he already knows that divorce is inevitable, and he tries to keep as many of your close friends and loved ones as possible.

Many people divorce; that’s nothing new. However, showing this level of disrespect and hate is definitely something that can’t be seen every day.

40. He doesn’t even try to apologize for his wrongdoings

Si intenta salva tu matrimonio, it’s completely normal that you show your husband his mistakes and expect him to repent of them.

Sin embargo, parece que that apology you’ll never get. The worst thing is that he doesn’t even try to fix them, but he keeps repeating them… I’m sorry, but things are official now; your man fell out of love with you.

41. Sigue incumpliendo sus promesas

He’s probably aware of the consequences of his actions, but he doesn’t care about it at all.

A salva tu matrimonioHabla primero con tu marido. Sentaos como dos adultos e intentad arreglar las cosas de forma civilizada.

Then, if you can’t reach a consensus, try therapy. Maybe you need someone to help you communicate with each other in order to solve your problems.

If that doesn’t work either, then it’s done and dusted: go your separate ways.

42. Las citas nocturnas están cayendo en el olvido

Be honest now… when was the last time you two had a romantic and noche de cita divertida? And, I don’t mean double dates you had with your friends or going out with the rest of your family members.

I mean when did you two enjoy a night out completely alone… I bet it was so long ago that you can’t even remember the exact date.

Sé que con el tiempo, la mayoría matrimonios caer en la rutina del aburrimiento. Sin embargo, siempre hay una causa de esos estancamientos, y la única forma de salvar tu matrimonio de ese bache es precisamente averiguando la verdadera causa.

43. Empieza a dejarte fuera de sus planes

Feels awful, right? The person who promised you’ll be the greatest and most important part of their life forever is now excluding you from their plans for the future.

I only hope that the pain you’re currently feeling deep in your heart will make you realize the real truth… he doesn’t love you anymore, and he is looking for a way to leave you or make you leave him.

44. Excusas, excusas y más excusas

If he uses some lame excuse every time you try to talk about your marital problems, it’s a huge red flag that he’s either hiding something or he has stopped loving and caring for you.

Ahora viene un trozo de importante consejos sobre relaciones for you: stop believing in his stupid excuses and don’t let him make a fool out of you!

Y, sepa que la verdadera verdad no está detrás de sus palabras, sino de sus actos.

45. Trata a los demás mucho mejor que a ti.

And, what do you think? Why is that? Well, obviously it’s because he doesn’t care for you like he used to. And, that leads us to the next logical conclusion; he doesn’t care nor love you anymore.

Además, debes saber que en el momento en que dejas de encabezar su lista de prioridades es cuando otra persona ha ocupado ese lugar.

46. Nunca está cuando más se le necesita

When you agree on marrying someone, you promise that you’ll always be there by their side… in the good and in the bad.

If your man has broken this vow, it’s a signo destacado he doesn’t love you anymore.

Debería ser tu mejor amigo, tu compañero de fechorías, tu mayor apoyo y, lo que es más importante, tu roca. En el momento en que deje de ser cualquiera de estas cosas, ten por seguro que su amor por ti se está desvaneciendo poco a poco.

47. Tu instinto te grita que sus sentimientos han cambiado

Cuando tu marido se desenamora, simplemente lo sientes muy dentro de ti. Y, aunque intentes reprimirlo o enterrar ese sentimiento en lo más profundo de ti, sigue saliendo a la superficie y no te queda más remedio que aceptarlo y enfrentarte a él.

A woman’s sentimiento interior is a very serious thing, even though, UNFORTUNATELY, most of us aren’t aware of it, and that’s why it should never be ignored.

I strongly believe that God gifted us with that 7th sense to protect us from being hurt by men who don’t deserve us. So, stop trying to silence your gut and, for once in your life, listen to what it has to say.

48. In the end, he admits that ‘something’ has changed

Yes, in the end, your man won’t be able to keep lying to you, and he’ll finally gather the courage to spill the beans. He’ll finally be man enough to admit that his feelings for you have changed.

Sin embargo, hasta entonces, debería buscar todos estos signos reveladores above that your husband isn’t in amor contigo más.

I can’t promise that it’ll help you avoid heartbreak because that’s truly unavoidable in a situation like this. But, it’ll surely reduce the effects and help you recover faster.

49. Or, suggests ‘taking a break’

Some married couples agree on taking a break from each other when they’re going through a rough patch. Of course, in most cases, they never get back together, and that ‘break’ becomes a divorce.

You can’t press the pause button on your marriage. It’ll only create greater distance and complicate things between you even more.

If your man suggests taking a break right after you confront him about your doubts, it’s just a signo inequívoco he’s a coward. He’s a weak man who doesn’t have the guts to stand in front of you after so much time spent together and admit the truth while looking you in the eyes.

50. Tú también te estás desenamorando lentamente

This is completely normal, and you should definitely not blame yourself for it. You can’t spend your life loving someone who clearly isn’t and never will be ready to reciprocate it to you in the right way.

Ahora, todo lo que tienes que hacer es seguir a tu corazón.

Sin embargo, debes saber que quedarte con un hombre así te hará más daño que dejarlo. Quedarse con él nunca cura tu corazón roto. By leaving him, on the other hand, there’s a chance for you to heal much faster than you thought.

Véase también: 19 Señales alarmantes de que a su marido le gusta su compañera de trabajo + cómo ponerle a prueba

¿Cuáles son los signos de un matrimonio sin amor?

Falta de respeto, desconexión emocional, falta de intimidad, defensiveness, lack of understanding, distancing from one another, constant fighting or not fighting at all… Estos son algunos de los principales señales de un matrimonio sin amor.

I know many women who are aware of the fact that their man doesn’t love them anymore, even after years of marriage, but still, they all keep living with them like everything’s completely okay.

However, that’s not okay and it should never be.

After facing the signs indicating a lack of love in a marriage, either try to engage your husband and get him to talk about what’s bothering him or, if that plan fails, leave for good and save yourself the trouble of trying to save what cannot be saved.

Lo esencial

What do you do if you recognize these signs your husband isn’t in love with you anymore? Well, first off, it’s important to realize that people change.

Aunque el hombre con el que vives puede haber sido encantador y dulce al principio de la relación, puede transformarse en una persona completamente diferente con el paso de los años.

Just know that it is better if you find out that your husband doesn’t love you now, instead of being in a matrimonio sin amor para el resto de tu vida.

When you realize that your marriage isn’t what it is supposed to be, it will be much easier to suelta de todo and find your happiness elsewhere… without a man who couldn’t keep his promise of loving you unconditionally, unselfishly, and most importantly, eternally.