The answer is pretty simple: you will get them back if you have faith in the Universe. But that’s not the only precondition for this to work.
You also have to be 100% certain that this is what you want. I know what you must be thinking now: you wouldn’t be here if you weren’t sure.
But trust me when I tell you that sometimes, we only think we know what we want. And then, after our desires don’t come true, and we dig deep into our unconsciousness, we realize that our energy was actually blocking this person from making their reappearance.
Why? Well, because we actually never wanted them for real.
You’ve tried it all – you called them, ignored them, didn’t sleep, didn’t eat, stalked their social media, talked about them, tried not talking about them… but nothing worked.
Your ex is not coming back. And what’s even worse, you haven’t gotten over them either.
Well, that’s why I’m here – to put the end to your misery. If you follow my instructions carefully, I’ll teach you how to manifest your ex back with the help of the law of attraction.
How To Manifest Your Ex Back:
Here is a step-by-step guide on getting your ex back:
1. Let them go
I’m sure this was not what you expected to hear, but guess what? The way to get back together with an ex is to let them go. Yes, you heard right. Your manifestation process can’t start on the right foot as long as you’re holding on to your ex.
Let’s be honest – all you do is think about your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend. Truth be told, you’re pretty obsessed with them.
You think of all the could-have-beens and should-have-beens, replay your entire relationship back and forth in your head, remember the first time you met, and most importantly, you’re overwhelmed with fear that they’ll never come back to you.
These are all limiting beliefs, and they aren’t any good for your manifestation techniques. That is why you should master the art of letting go before you manifest love with them again.
Do your best to forget that your ex-partner ever existed in your life. I know it’s hard, but do your best to stop thinking about them and, most importantly, to stop expecting them back.
No-contact rule
Letting go includes the no-contact rule. It means that you’re not allowed to call your ex, text them, ask your mutual friends about them, or even stalk their social media.
You’re not using the no-contact rule to make them chase you. You’re not doing it to make them realize that they’ve actually lost you.
Even though this is likely to happen, it’s not your primary goal. What you want is to free your energy from this specific person.
2. Let your ego go
The next thing that’s preventing you from manifesting your ex back is your ego. That is also something you have to let go of as soon as possible.
Your insecurities are holding you back. You’re not worth any less for wanting them back. So, what if they dumped you?
Does that really matter? Forget about getting even. Forget about proving a point to them, and stop trying to make them chase you.
Forget about your jealousy and their new partner. Even if they’re in a new relationship, it’s just part of their journey that will bring them back to you.
These are all negative beliefs you have to get rid of.
Besides, none of this is important. The only thing that matters is for you two to be happy in the end. Once you understand that, you’ll overcome your ego and be ready to continue your journey.
3. The whisper method
If you’re trying to figure out how to manifest your ex back, the whisper method is the right thing for you. It’s a simple technique and a surefire way of getting your ex back.
Start with visualization. Picture your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend as they are now. What are they doing? Are they sitting and watching TV? Are they getting ready to sleep?
At the end of the day, it doesn’t really matter. What’s important is for you to picture them exactly how they look at the moment.
Try going into as much detail as possible. How are they sitting? What are they wearing? What about their facial expression?
Now, imagine yourself approaching them quietly. They don’t see you, but they feel your vibe.
It’s time to tell them exactly what you want them to do. Visualize yourself coming close to their ear and whispering everything you want them to hear.
If necessary, you can say these things out loud. “Text me.” “Call me.” “Start thinking about me.”
4. Positive affirmations
For the law of attraction to work, you have to get rid of all the negative thoughts and negative emotions that have been weighing you down. Instead, it’s time to replace them with positive energy and positive thoughts.
The best way to achieve this is with the help of positive affirmations.
For starters, take a deep breath. Stand in front of the mirror, and verbalize everything you want to happen.
“My ex wants me back.”
“They still love me.”
“We will have a healthy relationship.”
“I’m their soulmate.”
“They are thinking about me in their new relationship.”
“I still take first place in their heart.”
Saying these sentences to yourself might look foolish at first, but trust me when I tell you, it works. You can even get yourself a journal and write everything down.
5. Positive visualization
Another way to surround yourself with positive energy is through visualization. It’s time to picture yourself back together with your ex.
Forget about this little fight and separation period. Instead, just visualize you two happier than ever.
Be as realistic as possible when it comes to this visualization. Picture the two of you in possible and real situations.
Picture them sleeping next to you in your bed while you’re lying there alone. Close your eyes and visualize their name on your phone display. Picture them asking you for a second chance.
If you need something to inspire you, pay attention to the loving relationships around you. Instead of focusing on all the heartbreaks and breakups, search for success stories. Look at the couples who managed to reunite after being separated and see you and your ex in them.
6. Your spiritual journey
You and your twin flame are not united for a reason. If you’re going through a separation phase, it’s happening because the Universe wants to teach you both a lesson.
You have to mature before you’re ready to reunite with your soulmate. And the first step toward that is your spiritual awakening.
You have to complete your spiritual journey by yourself before you get your ex back. This is an intimate and private act that leads you back to your soul.
This journey will help you rediscover yourself. A quest that helps you connect with your spirits, guardian angels, and the Universe.
Once you figure out your spiritual path, and once you reach spiritual growth, you’ll become much better at manifestation. You’ll master the law of attraction, and you’ll learn how to get whatever you want in life.
7. Self-love
Here’s a piece of relationship advice you don’t want but desperately need: If you want a healthy relationship with another human being, you have to build a healthy relationship with yourself in the first place.
So instead of focusing on your flaws and doing your best to change to fit society’s standards, master the art of self-love. You have to learn to love all parts of yourself, including your imperfections.
Of course, you’re allowed to change the things you don’t like about yourself. But make sure those are the things YOU want to change about yourself – not the things others want to change.
Now that you’re single, you have all the time in the world to work on yourself. This is a unique opportunity to finally become the best version of yourself and the person you were meant to be all along.
Once you learn how to respect and love yourself, you’ll set the same standards for whoever comes into your life. You’ll realize your worth, and you’ll never settle for less.
8. Don’t be impatient
When you’re trying to figure out how to manifest your ex back, you want it to happen as soon as possible. Whether you like to admit it or not, you’ve been dying to get back together with them, and you can’t wait a second longer for that to happen.
So, you keep on expecting your manifestation to finally pay off. You’ve followed the entire step-by-step guide, and you did everything right, so you can’t help but wonder what is taking them so long.
Well, this is another lesson you have to learn on this journey: the lesson of patience. Trust me, as long as you’re anxious and nervous about their return, it won’t happen.
Remember what I told you in the beginning: you must learn how to let go!
9. Trust the process
Let me tell you something: manifesting a specific person is a process. Most importantly, it’s not a linear process. What does this mean?
Well, first and foremost, you won’t get them back in the blink of an eye. It won’t happen when you want it to. Instead, they’ll come back into your life when you need them and, most importantly, when you’re ready to reunite with them.
Another thing you have to be aware of is that there will be good and bad days. There will be days when you’ll feel their presence and when you’ll be 100% sure that you’re on the right track. Even though you have no material evidence, you’ll know that your reunion is close.
Then, on other days, you’ll feel like you’re doing it all in vain. You’ll feel further away from them than ever, and you’ll be certain that none of your manifestation techniques are working.
What matters is not to give up on those cloudy days. Your energy and vibe will be going up and down, but eventually, things will fall into place.
10. Have faith in the Universe
There is no point in asking how to manifest your ex back if you don’t trust the Universe that it will happen. In fact, this journey is not only about reuniting with your specific person – I’ve already told you your spiritual awakening is equally important.
This means that, no matter what happens, you have to trust the Universe. Believe me when I tell you that your guardian angels and the Universe will know if you lose faith in them, and they’ll stop helping you.
Of course, this doesn’t mean that you’re deprived of free will. However, as long as you have unlimited trust in them, they will have your back, and they will guide you through the process.
11. Be certain that they will come back
Do you know who your number one enemy is? Doubt.
No matter what happens, you must always be certain that your ex is coming back. But don’t misinterpret this by thinking that you should spend your days patiently waiting and expecting them.
If you’re overly excited about their return, it means you’re still obsessing over them, and that’s not good either. Instead, this is how you should train yourself to feel.
Let’s get one thing straight first: you won’t spend all of your time practicing manifestation techniques. Don’t forget that you have to focus on yourself as well.
So, the next time you’re done with visualization, positive affirmations, or the whisper method, tell yourself that it worked. Don’t think about all the whatifs, and most importantly, don’t obsess over the worst-case scenario.
Know that your spiritual side is so powerful that there is no way your manifestation didn’t work out. Feel their presence, see them coming back to you, and let it go.
Let the hopes and the thoughts go. Continue with your day as usual because why would you worry over something you know will happen?
12. Stay away from negative influences
You’ve already dealt with the negative energy and negative emotions from the inside of your being. Now is the time to clear your vibe and get rid of all other external negative influences as well.
The first step is to get rid of toxic people. Stay away from people who hold you down and those who pretend to mean well.
I know exactly how this goes. You tell your friends that you know you’re getting your ex back. You tell them that you feel their presence and that you don’t want a new relationship because you expect your soulmate’s arrival.
And you get ridiculed in return. They say that you’re being desperate, that you’re imagining things, and that you’re borderline crazy.
Just like that, they instill doubt in you. You stop trusting the process and lose faith in the Universe.
Do you see why it’s better to stay away from negative people or at least not share your plans with them?
13. Practice gratitude
One of the worst things you can do is put your entire focus on the things and people you don’t have. Yes, this is also true for situations when you’re trying to manifest someone who is not around.
Instead of constantly thinking about your ex and everything you miss about them, shift your focus to what you have in your life. The Universe has to see that you’re thankful for everything that’s been given to you.
If you practice gratitude, you’ll get even more. Most importantly, eventually, you’ll get your ex back.
Start by writing a gratitude journal. Write down everything you’re grateful for at the end of every day.
Don’t worry, it doesn’t have to be anything extraordinary. You should be grateful for seemingly little things (that are actually the biggest), for the things you probably take for granted.
Be thankful for the roof over your head, for eating your favorite meal today, or for sleeping well last thing.
14. Become the ideal partner
When you’re trying to figure out how to manifest your ex back, I’m sure you keep thinking about the ways they should change to fit into your life better. And I’m sure you both could use some relationship coaching once you do get back together.
But have you ever thought of the possibility that you two are separated because you’re the one who has to work on your partnership skills? What can you do to become a better partner in the future?
While you’re evaluating your relationship, why wouldn’t you reevaluate your mistakes as well? Remember – disregard your ego in the process and do whatever is best for your relationship. This is the only way you can hope your ex has also made progress.
Only when you both finish the process and become better partners will the Universe allow you to reunite.
15. Stay away from hate
The only way to get a specific person back is to send them positive energy and vibe. Yes, you can still do this, even though you’re following the no-contact rule.
I’m not saying you should text or call them. It will be enough to have happy thoughts about them. Send these thoughts into the Universe, and be certain that they will get it.
Most importantly, send them all the love you have. This means that you have to get rid of hate, resentment, and grudges.
I assume that this person has done you harm. They broke your heart when they left. But what’s the point of wanting them back if you still hold on to these negative emotions?
Instead of plotting revenge, find the strength in yourself to forgive them. After all, you need a clean slate when they do come back, don’t you?
How Do You Know If Your Ex Is Manifesting You?
But what if the tables are turned? What if your ex has been manifesting you all along? Here are the signs they are:
1. They appear in your dreams
The first sign your ex is manifesting you is the fact that you keep dreaming about them. You don’t really think about them during the day, but as soon as the night comes, they start haunting you.
Well, this is happening because they’re somewhere far away from you, wide awake, thinking about you. Maybe they’re not deliberately or consciously manifesting you, but one thing is for sure: they can’t get you out of their head.
2. You keep seeing angel numbers
If you keep seeing repetitive numbers, such as 111, 222, 333, 444, 555, 666, and so on, wherever you look, that’s no coincidence. And lately, that’s exactly what’s been happening.
You look at phone numbers, the time, or license plates, and you keep seeing the same sequence of numbers. If you’re not into spirituality, you have no clue that these are actually angel numbers.
Your guardian angel is trying to tell you that your twin flame reunion is approaching. And it’s happening because your specific person is thinking about you.
3. You hear their name often
Another sign your ex is manifesting you is that you keep hearing their name. You watch your favorite TV show, and the new character has exactly the same name as your ex.
You meet a new coworker, and guess what? They also have the same name.
It looks like, as much as you’re trying to forget about them, something always reminds you of this person.
4. You think you see them
You don’t remember the last time you actually saw your ex-partner. However, everyone you run into looks exactly like them.
You smell their cologne or perfume, you hear their voice, you see the exact jacket they always wear, or you spot someone who walks just like them.
This is no coincidence either. It’s just a sign they’re trying to see you. Sadly, they’re having no success, so the Universe is making sure you at least think you see them.
5. You feel drawn to certain places
You’re sitting at home peacefully, and all of a sudden, you want to go out. But you know exactly where you want to go.
You feel the urge to drink coffee at that specific place, you want to go to that one club, or you feel the uncontrollable need to travel to a certain city you’ve never been to.
And when you finally go there, you run into your ex. No, this is not somewhere you two used to go together – I’m talking about the most random places ever, places you would never even think of seeing them.
Well, if this is not a sign they’ve been manifesting you, I don’t know what is.
To Wrap Up:
After wondering how to manifest your ex back, the next answer everyone wants is if these methods always work. Does the law of attraction always bring you what you want?
The answer is pretty simple: you will get them back if you have faith in the Universe. But that’s not the only precondition for this to work.
You also have to be 100% certain that this is what you want. I know what you must be thinking now: you wouldn’t be here if you weren’t sure.
But trust me when I tell you that sometimes, we only think we know what we want. And then, after our desires don’t come true, and we dig deep into our unconsciousness, we realize that our energy was actually blocking this person from making their reappearance.
Why? Well, because we actually never wanted them for real.
